According to my son’s dad at least!
Best part is he didn’t even tell me, he just vanished - and then told our sons social worker when she got hold of him (the SW he only has because he’s on a child in need plan because of his dads inability to cope with our sons additional needs). So she kindly phoned to relay the message.
He needs to “take care of himself before he can take care of DS”.
She offered to refer him to some supportive services but he politely declined.
My lucky, lucky son.