Me and my boyfriend had a bit of a heated argument last weekend. We didn't have any communication for a few days because he wouldn't pick up the phone. Then he spoke to me on my birthday last week and I went down to see him. We had a couple of nice days but then I wanted to talk about what happened and he didn't. He ended up asking me to go home after he got wound up and started shouting again. So for three days now we've not spoke again but last night he said that I could ring him and we agreed we needed to talk. It was a good conversation in terms of with both pointed out a couple of things like we need more cuddles and affection between us. We put some things to bed that had been creating this little blow out. We also talked about how much love we had for each other and that we still saw a good future. We opened up more than we ever had and he was very open for him because he often shuts down. He said he was going for a bath and he would message me after. He didn't message and I woke up this morning to no reply to my message. I called him just to check he was ok and he was on his way to work. I said to him if you'd like I can come down later for a drink. He sort of said yeah ok I'll let you know if I'll be home at a normal time. A few hours later I asked if he'd know by his brake if he'd be available tonight yet. He didn't reply until 2 hours ago and he said sorry I've been busy. I replied that's ok but can you answer my question. He rang and said he would ring me on his break. I said are you ok because you're not putting kisses on messages anymore and you seem like you're avoiding me since last night. He just said he was busy. This is out of character for him as he is usually always on his phone at work but he also will always message me in the morning and put kisses. So I sent a message and said to him it feels like he's still being distant with me. I said to him it's make or break now if you need space you need to say but if you want this to work you need to communicate better. He read it and didn't reply then on his lunch break he just rang and said he was busy sweetheart I will ring you you on my next break. I said to him this is not how you normally are. He said we had that talk last night and I said yes and your you're not interacting with me like you normally would. He said he will ring me
He's responding to me but he's is saying he's busy and ignoring questions. He's making excuses about me going down yet he's saying he wants to be with me still. I've offered him space and I've offered him to tell me exactly what he wants. I'm fed up of being in limbo now it's been 10 days of this on and off. I just can't read his body language what is he trying to say?