So.. I did the "meet the family" at a family party at the weekend. I've been with him for over 5 years, and we've been through a lot. I met his wider family including sister in law (only second time) I had too much to drink... Shock. I opened up to SIL telling her I was terrified to meet her because I assumed she had contact with his ex wife (he'd assumed she took out discount contracts for his kids not very long ago) he knew they werent friends but assumed she had because she had his ex wife on a discount contract before... Long story short.. I was horrified and can't quite remember the whole chat. Begged him to message and apologise to her.. he did two days later........ She responded. I said forward it as kids were around, he didn't. I then asked him and he said "I'll forward it but it was something like this...." An argument happened later because he wouldn't show me them and he "read" out her message and his response. I didn't believe it due to actions.. so I did the wrong think and I checked the messages.. she'd told him it was fine but asked why I have the impression they're in touch (umm because he assumed it?!) He responded to her "no idea where that came from" he clearly didn't read the message out to me right and is now FUMING I checked his phone.
I admitted it straight away, first time ever. And he did lie. He also made me look so stupid to his SIL and now I just don't know where this leaves us but he's adamant he's done nothing wrong and that I'm disgusting for looking at his phone
Yes I was wrong I admit that and I told him so and I really did blame myself for that.
It's not the first time he's lied and I just don't know where it leaves us.