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Seasidesunday · 10/04/2022 21:20

Been best friends with girl A and B since school. A and have been best friends since year 7. We’ve had moments in our lives where we haven’t seen loads of each other due to work relationships holidays etc but always tried to make time to meet up and called regularly. Throughout our late teens and early 20s we went out twice a week atleast together then it turned into dinners every other week or cocktails once a month I’m 28 now. Then lock down happened she also got engaged we spoke a lot but couldn’t meet during this time but during last summer we hung out and called loads discussed the wedding etc. friend B got a text saying what’s your address for the invite but never received one I then stop hearing from her. she’s started texting back but ghosting after a few texts and would answer my calls but always have to go or say she would call me later and never did. Recently I had a family member die and she messaged me about it and when I replied to say how upset I was by it being so unexpected she ghosted me.I’ve just found out that her hendo is coming up and she getting married in 78 days. I feel really hurt by this as I we where both so close her mum even still speaks to me over messenger to ask how I am. I just want to no what happened how can you just end a 17 year friendship.

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harrietmcarthur · 10/04/2022 21:30

That is so hard Op I'm sorry.
Do you think there is any chance she sent the invite but it got lost in the post? As for the hen do, are you friends with the bridesmaids who are arranging it? Do they know your friendship well and how close you are?
I've lost three close friends over the last few years due to situations like this and it's rubbish. I value myself more though and refuse to be made a mug off.

Seasidesunday · 10/04/2022 21:46

She’s planned her own hendo from what I can tell and we both would of spoken about it before hand if I was going. I mean she’s not been the best friends in terms of she’s very self obsessed at times but She’s always been there for me vice Versa.

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Seasidesunday · 11/04/2022 11:27

It just sucks to know how little she must have valued our friendship

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Seasidesunday · 13/04/2022 07:40

It feels like I’m going through a break up.

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Duchess379 · 13/04/2022 16:48

I had something similar happen to me.
I was friends with 2 girls from school & we'd go out regularly until we got to our 20s. They both got married & one had a child & they started meeting up without me but with their partners, having dinner dates at each others houses. It hurt but I had to let it go.

Seasidesunday · 14/04/2022 07:31

It’s so hard to isn’t it she’s now best friends with all the boyfriends mates partners there all bridesmaids.

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Seasidesunday · 14/04/2022 07:31

Before she managed to be friends with all of us but I guess she now only got time for them.

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