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AIBU to want to sell my car and become a 1 car household?

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Flibbyjibby · 09/04/2022 15:39

My husband started working at my workplace a couple of years ago and since then we obviously travel together (in “his” car) to and from work. My car has sat on the drive pretty much unused ever since. Whenever I do need to use it, I always have to jump start it because the battery has died. It is a cheap small runaround car, 12 years old and doesn’t cost a great deal in insurance/tax etc.

We have a 15mo child and another baby due in September. My husbands car is the family size car with the car seat fitted etc. I never take our baby out in my car as it is too much faff to move the isofix base and car seat from his car to mine on my days off. He does not want to drive my car to work when I am home on days off so that I can use the car seat, but I manage perfectly fine walking everywhere I need to go on those days.

I have suggested for years that we sell my car as it doesn’t get any use. DH always responds that it is useful to have “just in case”, but as I can’t take the kids in it as we can’t afford to buy two more expensive car seats I don’t really see the need to have it at all! Meanwhile it sits on the drive and I pay insurance and tax for something I don’t use.

AIBU to suggest we sell it and make do with the one car like many other families do? Is it really that difficult to manage with one car until we do really need another one?

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FloBot7 · 10/04/2022 20:31

YANBU in the circumstances it sounds like the car would only be needed in an emergency and the odd taxi would cost less in the long run.

fiftiesmum · 10/04/2022 20:57

Why can't dh have the older car for work and as you are at home with the family then you should have the family car.

When we got rid of the second car DH made all these promises about taking/collecting DC's from various activities but then would phone to say he hadn't been able to leave work so I would be running down the road with a little one in tow to collect the older DC.
It may make sense now to have one car OP but be preparing to rethink in a few years time.
And it is not that easy using taxis with two babies

Bumply · 10/04/2022 23:29

We went down to one car when I was on maternity leave due to needing to reduce costs.
Made sense, but did leave me more isolated and when I needed car that day I'd have to drive him to work and pick him up

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