Long story short, my abusive ex was removed by police just over a week ago. He has bail conditions to prevent contact with me. Through his mother and step dad I've had his possession collected from the house. Though they're still getting in touch for ridiculous things such as his easter egg and something he'd ordered off amazon, I paid for, that hasn't come yet.
Anyway I've told the social worker who visited on Mon that I want supervised access in a contact centre only. He drinks and smokes weed. His mam wants to supervise contact herself at her home. Firstly her home is filthy, really bad. The 4 adults in the home smoke heavily and indoors. In the past his mother has said she hadn't known ex was drinking as she couldn't tell, didn't know he had money and doesn't know what drink smells like. He then admits the next day he got the money from her to buy it and drank at her house. I've no faith at all that she would stop him drinking or smoking in front of DS, or that if anything happens she would tell me. DS has speech delay so couldn't say himself. Apart from saying that's what they want they have made no effort to call social services themselves or take anything any further. Social worker says they don't facilitate contact centres and he would need to take me to court, although I've since heard mediation could be used too. What am I supposed to do? Should I arrange it so I can't be accused of stopping contact?