My best friend of ten years seems to be ghosting me. Without being too outing I have on many occasions dropped everything to support her in a crisis. I have supported her through a divorce and bereavement. She has a new partner who I am yet to meet and I seem to have been dropped for him, no contact for weeks, ignoring my messages etc. I have on a couple of occasions over the past few months explained how I’m feeling about this and it has ended up with me feeling bad for mentioning it. It’s been about 6 weeks since we spoke on the phone, we’ve both had a child had a birthday in that time, mine wasn’t acknowledged, I’ve sent a card with money in to hers (this is what we always do), not heard anything 🤷🏼♀️
I’m going through some tests for health issues at the moment so I am more emotional than usual but i’m feeling really hurt that I am not being afforded the same support I have given to her in the past. Part of me just wants to block her and have done with it because I can’t deal with how it’s making me feel and I don’t want to say anything I will regret.