Am I being unreasonable?
For context, OH has Dd1 with his ex and dd2 with myself. Myself and OH do not live together.
His parents are visiting this weekend, the last few times they've come to mine on a Friday afternoon/evening which OH has been working (w@h - in his living room) and I've seen them Sunday. This time I've said I'm busy Friday so they can't come over (its not entirely a lie, but a slight stretch of the truth) and I'll just see them Sunday.
My reasonings, they just take so much effort to entertain, I can't get anything done when they are here, they leave late...dd2 is 4 months old and when she naps I cook or eat (or both if I'm lucky), I can't nip off and cook or eat when they are here (they get takeaway on a Friday so even offering them dinner is out of the question). They have dd1 on Saturday and dd2 (and me sunday). They travel 3.5 hours to get here, usually once per month - its what they've always done so no change of plans for me.
I'm just not sure I can deal with them on my own...comments on my parenting, comments on how much formula costs (it is the only financial thing her son contributes and its not all the time) and other little sly comments.
Am I being unreasonable for not wanting them to come over on Friday? (I was perfectly happy with my decision and my dad said I was being unreasonable - to be fair I can never do anything right by him either but that's another point). I'm more than happy to spend time with them and dd2 to have a relationship with them, but I'd prefer to do it with OH to burden the load).
Sorry, this just ended up me having a rant to myself!