Under so much pressure

5 replies

pleasestopnow · 06/04/2022 20:25

So....

I'm under extreme pressure.

Tax year end yesterday, very busy time for my job

Keeping it vague, a relative has come to stay, due to I'll health can't return home

DH had always been very harsh to me physically, I'm too fat, I'm ugly, I'm dirty

Had counselling and things improved, he accepted how cruel he was and wouldn't do it again....

First night it for ages with the additional pressure we've been under ...

Nice curry

So he says

"When are you getting your roots done"

Jesus with the shot I've got going on, really?

As it happens it's booked for tomorrow, but with all the shit going on it may have to be cancelled (need to attend hospital with relative for probably very bad results)

So he was meant to support me after all his nastiness, is that support!

Could we not have had a nice meal out, without him making me feel like shit?

I left the restaurant, I don't know where to go or what to do!

AIBU?

OP posts:

froufroufrou · 07/04/2022 06:59

I’m sorry for all you are going through.
You deserve so much better than DH.
YANBU and should consider your options for the future.
Do you have DC?

Bananalanacake · 07/04/2022 07:17

What a nasty bully, are you planning on leaving.

LondonQueen · 07/04/2022 12:53

I hope you are going to leave DH, he sounds like the last thing you need.

coronafiona · 07/04/2022 22:40

At the risk of disagreeing with the 'leave' and 'why are you with him' etc could this have just been a factual question? It's the sort of thing my OH would ask when asking for facts rather than having any kind of agenda. I totally get why it touched your buttons- I would be the same- but men aren't always very emotionally intelligent are they

Howmanydaysuntilfriday · 07/04/2022 22:46

@coronafiona

Very true

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