@coodawoodashooda
Any tips on how to make it happen? I guess it is all about living quietly and overpaying as much as possible.
First off DH is by MN standards a high earner, wasn't always but it has crept up incrementally.
We had a FD mortgage fixed rate, fixed term, on which you could make unlimited payments against once you didn't clear the balance before the end of the life of the package.
When we were really broke (and I mean broke we had tapas at home for my 40th on Nectar vouchers we had saved up and could only afford to invite one set of friends)(that felt like a low point)
I made sure we always had a couple of thousand behind us, but if for example if there was £75 left in the joint account on payday then I would sweep it in to the mortgage account.
DH has a FSP and then when he changed jobs a contribution fund, he also had two pension hangovers from when he was head hunted at the height of the tech boom, we asked for projections on these and realised that they were not going to payout a significant sum annually and we would be better off cashing them in and chucking them at the mortgage.
Once the main one was gone we borrowed another £40k for the kitchen and bathroom (which badly needed doing they were both here when we moved in and we have been here over twenty years we paid the guts of that down in three years. We continued to save what the mortgage was costing us and now have a healthy slush fund in PB's on which we are surprisingly getting a decent return.
DH works in an industry that pays an annual bonus sometimes quite good other times only £1,000 or so before tax, either way we would buy ourselves something small, book, new game, get a takeaway and then immediately stick the balance against the mortgage.
Historically in the last ten years we have made sure we have one decent holiday a year to Andalusia and flew club class , we are not acquisitive at all, our social life is at the rugby club and we probably eat out once a month if that.
We both drive second hand cars.
Not sure if that helps.