AIBU to think it is a bit off for guys to still be using Dating Apps after you have been speaking / seeing them for 3/4 months?
I had this conversation with my friend - I said if he is still on there he is still looking, he does not like you that much. She said that was ridiculous and he was allowed to do what he wants. I said of course he is, but he still does not like you that much 😂 Its not a great sign. Hes stringing you along. She said she would never say anything as she did not want to look ‘psycho’. I said just saying to him your pal seen him on PoF or whatever else is hardly psycho - it is the way you word it. ‘My friend seen you on PoF, do you still use it’. Hardly the epitome of instability.
I am so sick of the dating app / slide into DMs / casual culture of dating. Men seen to benefit greatly whereas some Woman are just being played left right and centre.
When I was 18/19 if I had met a guy out in a bar and we ended up seeing each other for weeks and been intimate - if me and the other girls got wiff of him SMSing on his Nokia to another lassie we would have called him a two timing moron and slapped him. Its so much worse now that they can literally do it from the palm of their desperate hands in their bachelor pads / behind their wives back in the toilet.
What has happened.
AIBU or is she? Feel so disillusioned with society.