A friend of mine recently moved about 2 hours away. She is a close friend and we'd met at a baby group, had subsequent babies at a similar time & spent a lot of time together. Im not someone who has a lot of friends (tend to be quite shy) and her moving has impacted upon me way more than I had expected & more than any other friends moving on has done. Although I absolutely want her to be happy in her new place, Im finding it quite hard hearing about all the new people shes meeting & stuff shes doing etc while I dont really have those opportunities (seemingly being the newbie means everyones keen to chat). She also forgot my birthday which was understandable in the context of her settling into a new place but a stark reminder that things had changed. I havent pointed this out to her as I think she would feel bad and that seems unfair. Anyone else struggled when a friends moved on? Or am I just being unreasonable?