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AIBU?

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AIBU to avoid my DH as much as possible?

7 replies

Coconutwatermelon · 29/03/2022 16:59

It isn’t because I’m in an abusive relationship, but at the moment I feel like I get nothing but criticism and this makes me really sensitive to times when he’s probably just making an observation.

So this morning I was looking for a shoe and he decided to ‘help’ me by listing the other things he’d found. That shouldn’t have been there. ‘Here’s a toothbrush. Here’s your phone. Here’s …’

I feel like I am just avoiding him as much as possible.

OP posts:
ikeepseeingit · 29/03/2022 17:02

Have you talked to him about how you’re feeling? Perhaps a conversation is needed before you start to pull away from him, otherwise it might never change.

Coconutwatermelon · 29/03/2022 17:05

I could but I just don’t want to be around him. Which is not the answer. But I really don’t want to talk to him or be around him.

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SmellyWellyWoo · 29/03/2022 18:41

Do you still love him? Or even like him?

Wombat98 · 29/03/2022 18:45

Sort out leaving, you've obv reached the end of your tether with him.

billy1966 · 29/03/2022 18:51

Beginning of the end OP.

Take some space and think.

Talk to him or start organising.

Coconutwatermelon · 29/03/2022 18:53

@Wombat98

Sort out leaving, you've obv reached the end of your tether with him.
Wish it was that simple!
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AnneLovesGilbert · 29/03/2022 18:54

What are the implications?

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