I (35f) have been with my man (53) for just over 2 years now. I would say we are complete opposites but it works so well. I would genuinely marry the guy tomorrow. The only issue for me is his ex gf. He has downplayed the whole relationship with her, probably to make me feel better. I know a good friend of hers and know how much they were in love, they talked about moving away together and it was serious. I have got over that because I think he has been trying to make me feel better about things, he is sweet like that. I know they are still in touch and all I asked was that he was honest and open about it.
Drunkenly the other night I saw the conversations between them and she is way more involved in his life than I expected. They go out for dinner, send heart emojis, kisses on the end of txts and he got her a Valentine’s Day card. I asked him and he got very defensive saying “So what?”
He doesn’t think this is a big issue but to me it really is. Feel like I am sharing him with her and feel like if after 2 years that hasn’t changed it’s not going to. I would never behave like this with another man, I am happy with our relationship and am loyal. This just doesn’t sit right with me, am I being unreasonable? would other women accept this?
Thanks 😊