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To ask what poem you return to to lift your spirits

143 replies

bobbleb · 19/03/2022 11:46

Just that really. Is there a poem that you love to read which inspires you, cheers you up or lifts your spirits. I will find a link to mine.

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SorenLorensonsInvisibleFriend · 19/03/2022 21:53

My favourite poem is Wendy Cope's Orange so delighted to see that straight away! Also, Desiderata - and Wordsworth's Daffodils, which lifts my spirits every time.

But, in memory of Shirley Hughes, this never fails to make me smile. Stop it, that's quite enough, Bernard.

To ask what poem you return to to lift your spirits
lifeuphigh · 19/03/2022 21:55

@risefromyourgrave Thank you for sharing that one. I so rarely read a poem on these types of threads that I don’t already know, but I’d never heard of Kim Addonizio, and that sent shivers down my spine. Off to find more!

Prettynails · 19/03/2022 21:55

Please much anything have you got poetry please?

JaneJeffer · 19/03/2022 21:56

@Allmyarseandpeggymartin

This was my granny’s favourite, who was called Mary. she taught all her grandchildren it. Needs to be read in a broad Yorkshire accent:

As tha seen ahr Mary's new bonnet
It's a stunner an' nooa mistat!
It’s gorra wreath of roooses on it
An' a ribbon reight dahn t'back
Ah Mary went ter church in er new bonnet
T'people did nowt but stand n stare
N’ when preacher saw it, he said: “eh missus this isn’t a garden party but a house of prayer."
That got ahr Mary mad, she said :” It int like thy eead- nowt in it, nowt on it!!
Would ta like a rooooose of my new bonnet?”

Love this one Grin
lifeuphigh · 19/03/2022 22:02

My favourite uplifting poem has already been shared but this one popped up on my FB the other day and I think it fits the bill well for this thread.

Everything Is Going to Be All Right by Derek Mahon

How should I not be glad to contemplate

the clouds clearing beyond the dormer window

and a high tide reflected on the ceiling?

There will be dying, there will be dying,

but there is no need to go into that.

The poems flow from the hand unbidden

and the hidden source is the watchful heart.

The sun rises in spite of everything

and the far cities are beautiful and bright.

I lie here in a riot of sunlight

watching the day break and the clouds flying.

Everything is going to be all right.

RobertaFirmino · 19/03/2022 22:03

@Mamathebest That's my favourite too, I see it as a massive 'fuck you' to racists and it makes me smile.

'The German Guns' by S. Baldrick could be considered a classic too : )

user1499114292 · 19/03/2022 22:08

@Clawdy

The Life That I Have - Leo Marks

The life that I have
Is all that I have
And the life that I have
Is yours

The love that I have
Of the life that I have
Is yours and yours and yours

A sleep I shall have
A rest I shall have
Yet death will be but a pause

For the peace of my years
In the long green grass
Will be yours and yours and yours

The background to this is heartbreaking. It deserves to be remembered.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poem_code

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Life_That_I_Have

Leo Marks was a code maker in WWII and it was used by a spy who was caught, tortured and executed. For some reason I knew about this when I was in my final year of primary school. It’s haunted me ever since.

Drinkyourweaklemondrink · 19/03/2022 22:09

The night train by WH Auden

Clawdy · 19/03/2022 22:13

Yes, the spy was the amazing Violette Szabo. The poem featured in the film of her short life "Carve Her Name With Pride".

Icouldabeenalawyer · 19/03/2022 22:27

VLADIMIR HOLAN

SNOW

It began to snow at midnight. And certainly
the kitchen is the best place to sit,
even the kitchen of the sleepless.
It's warm there, you cook yourself something, drink wine
and look out of the window at your friend eternity.
Why care whether birth and death are merely points
when life is not a straight line.
Why torment yourself eyeing the calender
and wondering what is at stake.
Why confess you don't have the money
to buy Saskia shoes?
And why brag
that you suffer more than others.

If there were no silence here
the snow would have dreamed it up.
You are alone.
Spare the gestures. Nothing for show.

Ilovetea33 · 19/03/2022 22:43

True Love
by Wislawa Szymborska

True love. Is it normal
is it serious, is it practical?
What does the world get from two people
who exist in a world of their own?

Placed on the same pedestal for no good reason,
drawn randomly from millions but convinced
it had to happen this way - in reward for what?
For nothing.
The light descends from nowhere.
Why on these two and not on others?
Doesn't this outrage justice? Yes it does.
Doesn't it disrupt our painstakingly erected principles,
and cast the moral from the peak? Yes on both accounts.

Look at the happy couple.
Couldn't they at least try to hide it,
fake a little depression for their friends' sake?
Listen to them laughing - its an insult.
The language they use - deceptively clear.
And their little celebrations, rituals,
the elaborate mutual routines -
it's obviously a plot behind the human race's back!

It's hard even to guess how far things might go
if people start to follow their example.
What could religion and poetry count on?
What would be remembered? What renounced?
Who'd want to stay within bounds?

True love. Is it really necessary?
Tact and common sense tell us to pass over it in silence,
like a scandal in Life's highest circles.
Perfectly good children are born without its help.
It couldn't populate the planet in a million years,
it comes along so rarely.

Let the people who never find true love
keep saying that there's no such thing.

Their faith will make it easier for them to live and die.

Translated from the Polish by Stanislaw Baranczak and Clare Cavanagh

PennyFleck · 19/03/2022 22:53

Coming back to this in the morning!

timeisnotaline · 19/03/2022 22:57

I will read all these today! Except for my odd poetry reading bouts, I think of a few specific poems when I really need to calm down or stop stressing. Here’s one:
The Snow Man

BY WALLACE STEVENS
One must have a mind of winter
To regard the frost and the boughs
Of the pine-trees crusted with snow;

And have been cold a long time
To behold the junipers shagged with ice,
The spruces rough in the distant glitter

Of the January sun; and not to think
Of any misery in the sound of the wind,
In the sound of a few leaves,

Which is the sound of the land
Full of the same wind
That is blowing in the same bare place

For the listener, who listens in the snow,
And, nothing himself, beholds
Nothing that is not there and the nothing that is.

Createabitofuntruenews · 19/03/2022 22:58

I live in the Midlands,I dream of living back in Sussex at the foot of the South Downs.This is my most loved poem by Hilaire Belloc.

"THE SOUTH COUNTRY"

When I am living in the Midlands,
That sodden and unkind,
I light my lamp in the evening:
My work is left behind;
And the great hills of the South Country
Come back into my mind.

The great hills of the South Country
They stand along the sea,
And it's there, walking in the high woods,
That I would wish to be,
And the men that were boys when I was a boy
Walking along with me.

The men that live in North England
I saw them for a day;
Their hearts are set upon the waste fells,
Their skies are fast and grey;
From their castle-walls a man may see
The mountains far away.

The men that live in West England
They see the Severn strong,
A-rolling on rough water brown
Light aspen leaves along.
They have the secret of the rocks
And the oldest kind of song.

But the men that live in the South Country
Are the kindest and most wise,
They get their laughter from the loud surf,
And the faith in their happy eyes
Comes surely from our sister the Spring
When over the sea she flies;
The violets suddenly bloom at her feet,
She blesses us with surprise.

I never get between the pines
But I smell the Sussex air;
Nor I never come on a belt of sand
But my home is there.
And along the sky the line of the Downs
So noble and so bare.

A lost thing could I never find,
Nor a broken thing mend;
And I fear I shall be all alone
When I get towards the end.
Who will there be to comfort me
Or who will be my friend?

I will gather and carefully make my friends
Of the men of the Sussex Weald;
They watch the stars from silent folds,
They stiffly plough the field.
By them and the God of the South Country
My poor soul shall be healed.

If I ever become a rich man,
Or if ever I grow to be old,
I will build a house with deep thatch
To shelter me from the cold,
And there shall the Sussex songs be sung
And the story of Sussex told.

I will hold my house in the high wood,
Within a walk of the sea,
And the men that were boys when I was a boy
Shall sit and drink with me.

fussychica · 19/03/2022 23:17

Gunga Din by Kipling, totally non PC but my wonderful late dad who was stationed in India during the war used to recite it to me when I was a child. I love it because whenever I read it/ recite it I can hear his voice.

bobbleb · 19/03/2022 23:18

Wow, thank you all so much for sharing. I was way laid after posting and have returned this evening to your beautiful poems. I've loved reading them. This is one of my favourites which certainly lifts my spirits during times of weariness.

For One Who Is Exhausted, a Blessing

John O’Donohue

When the rhythm of the heart becomes hectic,
Time takes on the strain until it breaks;
Then all the unattended stress falls in
On the mind like an endless, increasing weight.

The light in the mind becomes dim.
Things you could take in your stride before
Now become laborsome events of will.

Weariness invades your spirit.
Gravity begins falling inside you,
Dragging down every bone.

The tide you never valued has gone out.
And you are marooned on unsure ground.
Something within you has closed down;
And you cannot push yourself back to life.

You have been forced to enter empty time.
The desire that drove you has relinquished.
There is nothing else to do now but rest
And patiently learn to receive the self
You have forsaken in the race of days.

At first your thinking will darken
And sadness take over like listless weather.
The flow of unwept tears will frighten you.

You have travelled too fast over false ground;
Now your soul has come to take you back.

Take refuge in your senses, open up
To all the small miracles you rushed through.

Become inclined to watch the way of rain
When it falls slow and free.

Imitate the habit of twilight,
Taking time to open the well of color
That fostered the brightness of day.

Draw alongside the silence of stone
Until its calmness can claim you.
Be excessively gentle with yourself.

Stay clear of those vexed in spirit.
Learn to linger around someone of ease
Who feels they have all the time in the world.

Gradually, you will return to yourself,
Having learned a new respect for your heart
And the joy that dwells far within slow time.

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VenezuelaChant · 19/03/2022 23:27

There once was a man from Nantucket...

Grin
WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 20/03/2022 01:45

What a wonderful thread - please don't let it end!

My contribution is a bit weird, as it's a hybrid poem, and it was quoted by Bob at the poignant end of an episode of the criminally underrated Bob & Margaret. The first part is by Emily Dickinson, but the second part of her original poem was replaced by (presumably) the writer of the episode, to make:

When roses cease to bloom, dear
and violets are done
When bumblebees in solemn flight
Have passed beyond the sun

When winter's melancholy hand
Moves quick, and cold, and keen
As shrouding faded petals
What remains is evergreen

WannabeGilmoreGirl · 20/03/2022 03:07

My favourite poems are Wordsworths Daffodils and these ones

Don't Quit
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low but the debts are high,
And you want to smile but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don’t you quit.

Life is strange with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many failures turn about
When we might have won had we stuck it out.
Don’t give up though the pace seems slow –
You may succeed with another blow.

Success is failure turned inside out –
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
You can never tell how close you are
It may be near when it seems so far;
So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit –
It’s when things seem worst that you must not quit.

By Edgar A Guest

And this one which was my favourite when I was a child and still makes me smile

Cats Sleep Anywhere

Cats sleep anywhere, any table, any chair.
Top of piano, window-ledge, in the middle, on the edge.
Open drawer, empty shoe, anybody's lap will do.
Fitted in a cardboard box, in the cupboard with your frocks.
Anywhere! They don't care! Cats sleep anywhere.

By Eleanor Farjeon

Jamboree01 · 20/03/2022 03:16

There’s an inner thing in every man,
Do you know this thing my friend?
It has withstood the blows of a million years,
And will do so to the end.

It was born when time did not exist,
And it grew up out of life,
It cut down evil’s strangling vines,
Like a slashing searing knife.

It wept by the waters of Babylon,
And when all men were a loss,
It screeched in writhing agony,
And it hung bleeding from the Cross.

It died in Rome by lion and sword,
And in defiant cruel array,
When the deathly word was ‘Spartacus’
Along the Appian Way.

Its heart was buried in Wounded Knee,
But it will come to rise again.
It is found in every light of hope,
It knows no bounds nor space
It has risen in red and black and white,
It is there in every race.

It lies in the hearts of heroes dead,
It screams in tyrants’ eyes,
It has reached the peak of mountains high,
It comes searing ‘cross the skies.

It lights the dark of this prison cell,
It thunders forth its might,
It is "the undauntable thought", my friend,
That thought that says "I'm right!"

FlowerArranger · 20/03/2022 04:12

To me, the most beautiful poem ever written...

Ode to a Nightingale
BY JOHN KEATS

My heart aches, and a drowsy numbness pains
My sense, as though of hemlock I had drunk,
Or emptied some dull opiate to the drains
One minute past, and Lethe-wards had sunk:
'Tis not through envy of thy happy lot,
But being too happy in thine happiness,—
That thou, light-winged Dryad of the trees
In some melodious plot
Of beechen green, and shadows numberless,
Singest of summer in full-throated ease.

O, for a draught of vintage! that hath been
Cool'd a long age in the deep-delved earth,
Tasting of Flora and the country green,
Dance, and Provençal song, and sunburnt mirth!
O for a beaker full of the warm South,
Full of the true, the blushful Hippocrene,
With beaded bubbles winking at the brim,
And purple-stained mouth;
That I might drink, and leave the world unseen,
And with thee fade away into the forest dim:

Fade far away, dissolve, and quite forget
What thou among the leaves hast never known,
The weariness, the fever, and the fret
Here, where men sit and hear each other groan;
Where palsy shakes a few, sad, last gray hairs,
Where youth grows pale, and spectre-thin, and dies;
Where but to think is to be full of sorrow
And leaden-eyed despairs,
Where Beauty cannot keep her lustrous eyes,
Or new Love pine at them beyond to-morrow.

Away! away! for I will fly to thee,
Not charioted by Bacchus and his pards,
But on the viewless wings of Poesy,
Though the dull brain perplexes and retards:
Already with thee! tender is the night,
And haply the Queen-Moon is on her throne,
Cluster'd around by all her starry Fays;
But here there is no light,
Save what from heaven is with the breezes blown
Through verdurous glooms and winding mossy ways.

I cannot see what flowers are at my feet,
Nor what soft incense hangs upon the boughs,
But, in embalmed darkness, guess each sweet
Wherewith the seasonable month endows
The grass, the thicket, and the fruit-tree wild;
White hawthorn, and the pastoral eglantine;
Fast fading violets cover'd up in leaves;
And mid-May's eldest child,
The coming musk-rose, full of dewy wine,
The murmurous haunt of flies on summer eves.

Darkling I listen; and, for many a time
I have been half in love with easeful Death,
Call'd him soft names in many a mused rhyme,
To take into the air my quiet breath;
Now more than ever seems it rich to die,
To cease upon the midnight with no pain,
While thou art pouring forth thy soul abroad
In such an ecstasy!
Still wouldst thou sing, and I have ears in vain—
To thy high requiem become a sod.

Thou wast not born for death, immortal Bird!
No hungry generations tread thee down;
The voice I hear this passing night was heard
In ancient days by emperor and clown:
Perhaps the self-same song that found a path
Through the sad heart of Ruth, when, sick for home,
She stood in tears amid the alien corn;
The same that oft-times hath
Charm'd magic casements, opening on the foam
Of perilous seas, in faery lands forlorn.

Forlorn! the very word is like a bell
To toll me back from thee to my sole self!
Adieu! the fancy cannot cheat so well
As she is fam'd to do, deceiving elf.
Adieu! adieu! thy plaintive anthem fades
Past the near meadows, over the still stream,
Up the hill-side; and now 'tis buried deep
In the next valley-glades:
Was it a vision, or a waking dream?
Fled is that music:—Do I wake or sleep?

KleineDracheKokosnuss · 20/03/2022 07:13

@PenguindreamsofDraco

Invictus, every time.
Me too! Though I love some of these others and I need to collate them for later reference!
CovoidOfAllHumanity · 20/03/2022 07:32

Lots of my favourites already here
I love many Wendy Cope poems
Also Maya Angelou I Rise is so inspiring and picks you up

But if I want to go to a happy place I read Innisfree. I was brought up in a bit of a rural idyll (that I hated at the time) and now live in suburbia so I very much relate to the yearning for a simpler place.

The Lake Isle of Innisfree
BY WILLIAM BUTLER YEATSS_
I will arise and go now, and go to Innisfree,
And a small cabin build there, of clay and wattles made;
Nine bean-rows will I have there, a hive for the honey-bee,
And live alone in the bee-loud glade.

And I shall have some peace there, for peace comes dropping slow,
Dropping from the veils of the morning to where the cricket sings;
There midnight’s all a glimmer, and noon a purple glow,
And evening full of the linnet’s wings.

I will arise and go now, for always night and day
I hear lake water lapping with low sounds by the shore;
While I stand on the roadway, or on the pavements grey,
I hear it in the deep heart’s core.

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 20/03/2022 07:57

@lifeuphigh

My favourite uplifting poem has already been shared but this one popped up on my FB the other day and I think it fits the bill well for this thread.

Everything Is Going to Be All Right by Derek Mahon

How should I not be glad to contemplate

the clouds clearing beyond the dormer window

and a high tide reflected on the ceiling?

There will be dying, there will be dying,

but there is no need to go into that.

The poems flow from the hand unbidden

and the hidden source is the watchful heart.

The sun rises in spite of everything

and the far cities are beautiful and bright.

I lie here in a riot of sunlight

watching the day break and the clouds flying.

Everything is going to be all right.

Yes - this was the one I linked to Andrew Scott reading earlier in the thread.
VillanellesOrangeCoat · 20/03/2022 08:43

Loving this thread. I Rise and Wild Geese are two of my favourites, but this is the one I frequently recite to myself, to give myself permission to just ‘be’…

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