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Help! Suddenly incontinent?

17 replies

Wishquestion · 19/03/2022 02:06

Can anyone talk me down?

I had a UTI a couple of months ago. It was treated but the feeling of needing to go has never gone. It's hard to deal with. I saw a consultant this week who said UTIs can hang around for a while, not so l showing up on urine analysis. He gave me a week's antibiotic then I have to take half the dose for three months. He also recommended Replens for vaginal dryness.

I started the antibiotics on Wednesday and inserted the Replens that day too. Today, and yesterday I seem to have become a bit incontinent (and still need to go!). It's not happening because I'm desperate to go-it's just been happening randomly.

I don't think it's the Replens because it's hot like urine (TMI - so sorry). I'm also in the middle of a mental health crisis and adjusting to medication (mood stabiliser etc) that's causing horrific migraines and nausea. The thought of incontinence is is just the last straw. I know nothing about this. Can anyone help me? I'm worrying this will go and things are getting worse or more serious.

Thank you so much.

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Wishquestion · 19/03/2022 02:07

Sorry about the typos, panicking muchly.

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Wouldcouldcantwont · 19/03/2022 02:31

Hi I don’t want to alarm you but I’ve been told by both a doctor and a physio that you should seek urgent medical advice if you have sudden incontinence. I’d call 111 and see what they say. I hope you feel better soon.

ThePoorWeeDonkey · 19/03/2022 02:32

This sounds awful op. Sorry I can't offer any words of advice but I hope you're ok.

Emelene · 19/03/2022 02:45

Agree with the previous poster that you should seek urgent assistance/assessment tonight . After that I would contact the doctor you saw and see what they say. All the best OP.

Wishquestion · 19/03/2022 02:49

Thank you both. It's such a small amount that I thought maybe it's just the Replens emerging. I'll post an update time.

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Justilou1 · 19/03/2022 02:56

You may have “bladder crystals” which need to be surgically removed. See your GP.

Missingjigsawpuzzle · 19/03/2022 02:56

Hi not to alarm you (as most likely all is fine) but yes agree with above, your symptom requires checking sooner rather than later to be on the safe side

MingeofDeath · 19/03/2022 03:06

Are you experiencing any other symptoms such as pins and needles/numbness around your anus and lower back?

Nat6999 · 19/03/2022 04:34

I suffer from increased incontinence when I have a uti, it is almost like my bladder doesn't want to hold anything. I have mild incontinence usually due to overactive bladder but this is something else, my bladder continuously spasms & let's all the urine out. My record is 21 pads in a day. I would ask your GP to have your urine sample sent off to be tested again as it may be an antibiotic resistant infection or at least change the antibiotics.

hashbrownsandwich · 19/03/2022 06:38

As someone who performs urinalysis and has had training in this area, please call 111.

Wishquestion · 19/03/2022 08:35

Thank you all.

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Wishquestion · 19/03/2022 08:38

I'm sorry you've had such an awful time Nat69.

Minge No, none of the symptoms you mentioned. I have a gnawing pain at my naval that has come and gone in the past (hernia repair) but that's all.

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DoWhatYouLike · 19/03/2022 10:44

I get stress incontinence (like most women when they've had children) when I cough, sneeze or bend over. I wear thin pads. I also have an overactive bladder and was seeing 25-30 times a day! The "normal" amount is 8 wees in 24 hours.

I saw a Urologist, who asked me to measure how much I drank and how much I weed in a day, (I used a separate jug for each) and it turned out I'd been drinking 7 pints of fluid in a day - far too much. but that's been OK since I cut it down to 3 pints a day and stopped having caffeine (it really does make a difference)

Tootsey11 · 19/03/2022 10:57

What age are you Op?

QuantumHypothesis · 19/03/2022 11:07

Dud you ring 111 as advised? Sudden incontinence can be a symptom of cauda equina, which is a medical emergency.

fairylightsandwaxmelts · 19/03/2022 11:09

Sudden incontinence can be an emergency - please ring 111.

Wishquestion · 19/03/2022 14:24

Sorry for the overly dramatic thread title. I really think it's the Replens re-emerging. Haven't used it before and I didn't realise it was so watery.

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