Hi all.. I know this lady two years - enough to go for a walk etc and one child similar age. She had a post builder house warming Sat and my youngest went over earlier than most adults for a bouncy castle. Issue is when I got over she was absolutely s faced falling all over the place with another woman in front of all children who were unsupervised and out of control running all over the house and put in front garden etc. Her husband and his pals were drinking too (not to same extent ). I was shocked that they could be so drunk at 4 in the afternoon and that they weren’t looking after children. I removed mine as did another neighbour. I didn’t join them later that evening. She texted me Sunday to say she was sorry I didn’t make Sat night and it was “great fun” and asked if I was free for a walk during the week. It’s the second time I’ve seen her behave like this - first time at a post Covid bbq and I thought ok post Covid release forget it but this time I’m like no it’s completely wrong and she’s crass. Am I just too conservative and should be more chilled ? I don’t want to even look at her - I thought her behaviour was horrible given she’s 44 and in front of young children (6 to 8 ).