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How do you make yourself feel better after a difficult day

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Whelmed · 14/03/2022 17:07

Just that really, I've had a difficult day today, nothing major, just couple of very disappointing things happen at work, home and school. Interested in how other people deal with such days. I'm having a glass of wine, listening to music and just generally trying to distract my thoughts from dwelling on it too much.

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Holothane · 14/03/2022 18:17

Favourite tv well dvds when new bath is in it will be bubbles.

HandlebarLadyTash · 14/03/2022 18:22

Spend time outside in the sun (if avalible)
Go to bed early

HalfShrunkMoreToGo · 14/03/2022 18:24

I put some really loud shouty music on in the car and drive while singing at the top of my voice. Must look a bit weird but does the trick for me.

GrolliffetheDragon · 14/03/2022 18:27

Just realised that I don't. Everyday is a bit difficult at the moment.

Buildingthefuture · 14/03/2022 18:38

Wine, take away, some mindless tv (911 a current favourite) and an early night. Then up early and a 30 minute workout so I don’t take my pissed off mood into the new day….

FridaynightCry · 14/03/2022 18:41

Huge cuddles from my dd (4)
Then wine and plenty of heavy metal on headphones.

If DP is over then it's sex! Always helps

I'm sorry you're having a shit day OP. I hope it improves. You've got this x

DespairingHomeowner · 14/03/2022 18:42

Calling a friend, then chocolate/treats & TV

Stressedout1009 · 14/03/2022 18:43

@DelurkingAJ

Chocolate and a moan to DH who is excellent at diffusing these things for me.
The exact same here. Dh is my voice of reason and sounding board.
Invasionofthegutsnatchers · 14/03/2022 18:44

Vodka

Hard House, trance or happy hardcore on decent headphones

My headphones are lost somewhere in my house currently 😣

HelenaJustina · 14/03/2022 18:47

Always a run. I hate running but love the feeling afterwards, it resets me and helps me shake off the day. Did a 10hr day at work today and have just done a 5k, the long difficult day is now behind me.

Chocolate, cup of tea and early night with my Kindle if the run hasn’t quite finished the job.

Christmas1988 · 14/03/2022 18:47

A big full sized chocolate bar, usually a wispa gold microwaved on a plate for 20seconds and eat it with a spoon! 😂

Ikeptgoing · 14/03/2022 18:51

I play Prince Purple Rain loudly . Maybe a few times. Then Nikita, 1999 and Let's go crazy!!"
My son turns around and goes back out again for half an hour if it hears Prince.

Then I quick dinner and jobs, get into the shower early or just into my pjs, grab a cat to cuddle and get into bed and go on my phone to WhatsApp a friend, or sm, or watch You tube/ Netflix film on my phone.

If it's not a bad day but I'm just sad, I bake with my preteen daughter whatever wonderful cake or biscuits she fancies making. Which we eat with a cup of tea and put in our packed lunches over the next few days. Sometimes we do something useful like empty and tidy out a kitchen cupboard or reorganise a room. Usually her bedroom, as she likes to move her bed around. Grin

Today I have a cat and am going to bed. Now. One hour 20 mins after I finished work. Because that's it, I'm done tonight. Just gotta find a cat who needs a cuddle... GrinGrin

Goldfishmountainclimber · 14/03/2022 19:00

Cup of tea, chocolate biscuit and some relaxing tv.

gingerhills · 14/03/2022 19:01

A glass of wine, a hot bath with essential oils, bubbles and/or salts, with gentle music playing in the background. Then I watch a few reruns of favourite comedies and maybe do some affirmations late at night or book some fun things to look forward to. If it's related to DC I can't relax until we've chatted and I've made them feel better about whatever crisis they are going through.

Boood · 14/03/2022 19:07

Yoga helps me to draw a line under it and separate the day from the evening.

Superbabe64 · 14/03/2022 20:25

In the week Spin class at the gym or a ride out on my bike. If a Friday...lots of wine

user00119922 · 14/03/2022 20:27

The gym! Does wonders for me when I'm feeling shit Daffodil

vesperlindor · 14/03/2022 20:27

Maltesers

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