There's one group of close friends I have who I meet regularly. A few weeks ago two of them said their partners were talking about a weekend away. Then the third partner was going to join them too. (My partner doesn't socialise separately with theirs really, but we all meet happily in larger groups). Next thing I knew suddenly my friends are going on the weekend away too! I'm 52. Am I too old to feel left out? None of them said anything to me in advance of me finding out casually, but I do feel hurt not to be included or even asked if we'd like to go. They said it wasn't deliberate, but just 'sort of happened' that way.