I'm sure anyone who's been pregnant has been there before when their mates are telling them how excited they are for the birth and how they can't wait to meet them and they make out they'll never be away but then of course when baby is born they see them once and then are never to be seen again.
I had my first baby in June of last year and my 'best friend' was so excited when I announced my pregnancy but since my little girl has been here she's not made one bit of effort. I'd say we text fairly often and she never really asks about her. She also lives literally two mins up the road from me and I think she's been around twice since she's been born.
I just feel really disappointed. She's been my best friend for 10 years and I really thought she'd make an effort. I feel really let down and am always biting my tounge trying not to say something to her about it.
On top of this she started going out with this guy probably around January of last year, I actually set them up as he's a friend of my fiances and since then she's become even more distant. I wouldn't mind but she does this everytime she gets a boyfriend and it really bugs me. Around Christmas time she let me and our friendship group down for a night out because she said she was worried about catching covid so close to Christmas but then literally a few days later she was out with her boyfriend, posting stories of the two of them having drinks on her instagram. I was so upset.
Am I being unreasonable? I'm starting to question if she's even a good friend.