Every morning I drop my DD to senior school and she walks the rest of the way with a group of girl friends. There’s about 5/6 of them altogether. Usually we get there at a time when some friends are still on their way so all of the girls wait including my DD until everyone’s there and they walk in together. They call it their ‘morning girls group’. We would usually arrive with a couple friends already there, yet a couple still on their way.
This morning we were running a little later than normal (only by a couple of minutes) and my DD had text her group to say she was still going to be there.
Anyways when we get there, NONE of her friends are there, not one. She called a friend and they said that they ‘had already left. Sorry.’
My DD said she wasn’t bothered but I could tell she was upset and now I can’t stop thinking about it and wondering if she’s ok.
I feel really upset for her. What does this mean? It’s not as if she doesn’t wait for everyone else and it’s not like we were so late that the girls had to get to school on time. It was marginal. There’s been times when she’s been there and her friends have been even later but they all still wait for everyone.
AIBU to think that this is upsetting?