@codeVeronica
There is a huge territory of nuance that is missing from your understanding of RC.
It really isn’t the way you think it is. Being gay is a state of being in oneself, like being tall or short. There is nothing a person can do about it which the Church has always acknowledged. It’s not something to be changed.
there are other Christian faiths that take a different view - conversion, etc. That’s a whole different ball game imv - they are not really Christian if they don’t except people the way they are in my opinion.
In the RC church, marriage has a particular purpose - a unit for the family. Biologically, same sex can’t reproduce therefore, marriage is redundant in RC.
Of course, there is adoption, etc nowadays so no one (except for some hardliners who are holding on to the doctrine as they believe it and not the faith - they are two distinct things) would see that unit as anything other than a family unit.
For the record, if a person went to the priest and said they felt same sex marriage was wrong, the advice would be focused on
- their sphere - why does it concern them?
- is love there? Isn’t that the important thing?
- God has the answers - chill. It’ll all make sense in the end.
We keep it simple.