Longish story but I broke up with a dp a few weeks ago. He wants us to get back together again but certain things have to change before this could happen (basically, I'm on a hiding to nothing that this will happen ).
He's not well at the moment and rang me to let me know. I gave the usual advice, keep warm, drink plenty of fluids etc and then he rang off but not before he'd said he might ring me in the middle of the night - he's prone to panic attacks about his health and was on A-Ds for this, this time last yaer. I said that I may not hear the phone as I would probably be asleep but that if I did hear it, I would pick up!
A little while later, being more than half-asleep I totally forgot about this conversation and switched my phone off since i was worried about it overheating in the cover (sounds odd but it's true). So he rings at 5.30am and finds the phone off. He's now accused me of lying about saying I'd take any calls and when I said about my silly fear of the phone catching fire, he called this vindicating. I don't even live near him - his Mum is 5 minutes down the road so if it was a real emergency, I couldn't help anyway. I appreciate he was upset or whatever this morning to find my phone was off....(I have regularly been 'in trouble' with him for doing this sort of thing in the past which naturally I got tired very quickly) but get over it!! Or am I being UR?