I had a abusive childhood on my mothers’ behalf, she definitely favoured my younger brothers which they have admitted to, I was belted with a jug cord, given so much castor oil I was hospitalised for 2 weeks, had an eardrum perforated because she hit me so hard across my head, goes on & on, got into a disastrous 1st abusive marriage to get away, needless to say that didn’t happen out. I happily married the man of my dreams while my Dad was extremely sick with cancer, he adored my now husband, my Dad passed away not long after, we were very close even though he rarely could stand up to my mother. I’m sorry if this is long winded but I have to say after the abusive release with my mother I wouldn’t talk to her for years, when I started to again it seemed ok, until the day my husbands’ mum passed away, my mother got drunk yet again & we were staying as a stopover & she made a full on pass on my husband, lap dancing, fingers through his hair & gyrating on his lap, he was mortified, I haven’t spoken to her since apart from telling her how appalling her behaviour was & how my husband felt, she apologised to him, never to me —. Am I in the wrong?