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Woman at work burst out laughing at me

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ConfusedNUpset · 27/02/2022 19:48

I do bank shifts for the NHS, therefore I’m not in one place, I move around so don’t really get to know anyone properly as such.
Yesterday I was on shift when the senior came into the clinic to borrow something. She asked how the day was going and I said “not too bad thank you”. That was all I said. Well she started sniggering looked like she was trying to hold it back and then burst out howling with laughter. I didn’t know what to do so I kind of laughed along and just said “what is it?” But she couldn’t talk, she had tears rolling down her face and was literally bent over screaming with laughter. I asked again what was funny and she just waved her hands at me as she couldn’t speak. Anyway I decided to just carry on with my work and she eventually scurried out of the room but I could still hear her laughing in the corridor.

So I was paranoid anyway. This morning another staff member came in for something and asked what I’d done to senior as she was hyperventilating when she got back to the office. I told her she’d just burst out laughing for no reason and she said that was unusual as she’s a miserable sod normally.

Now I’m ultra paranoid. I’m due back there tomorrow but I’m so self conscious now and feel like I can’t say anything as she’s senior (as in two bands higher than me).

Any suggestions as what she might have been laughing at?? Could it be that she remembered something funny and I just happened to be there? DH keeps telling me to forget about it but it’s really playing on my mind.

Name changed as ultra outing!

OP posts:
Harmonypuss · 28/02/2022 19:26

Ask her!

moogoom · 28/02/2022 19:31

I am making a guess that your light hearted responce charred against her mood that day and she started laughing because otherwise she'd cry? Sometimes work is such a bunch of crap you can't imagine someone would respond with 'its going OK' or some semi upbeat way. Not that her attitude has got anything to do with you. Perhaps next time you see her, try to out do yourself, so your the happiest version of you that you can be. Just to wind her up Grin

MotherRiley · 28/02/2022 19:56

Dope cookies 🤪

Sudoku88 · 28/02/2022 20:28

She sounds like an absolute weirdo. Just ignore it and move on. Go to work tomorrow and carry on as normal. You clearly didn’t do anything wrong and she’s the one with the problem- not normal behaviour.

Lifetheuniverseandeverything · 28/02/2022 21:13

It’s a clip from Bill Bailey doing the rounds about how British people respond to being asked ‘how are you?’

obstacalling · 28/02/2022 21:18

What a silly thread.

Why didn't you ask? You won't find answers here

Feeascotime · 28/02/2022 22:06

Very rude and at least she should offer an explanation. So inappropriate for a senior member of staff. I would give it no second thought. Ignore it like you would ignore the bad behaviour of a child.

Stilsmiling · 28/02/2022 22:21

Can you ask her in a light hearted way? Could you explain that your hearing isn’t 100% and aren’t sure if you misheard her because you didn’t mean to be funny but obviously said something funny to make her laugh so much?

Kanaloa · 28/02/2022 22:23

@obstacalling

What a silly thread.

Why didn't you ask? You won't find answers here

In that vein all threads are stupid. Should you call your baby Olivia or Emily? What a silly thread, ask your partner what he thinks and decide which name you both prefer. Is your husband cheating on you? What a silly thread, ask him, how should we know. Should you go to Spain or Greece on holiday? What a silly thread, go where you want to go.
maybloss2 · 28/02/2022 23:20

Or maybe she misheard you?
Rude though.

ConfusedNUpset · 01/03/2022 07:31

I asked her and she started laughing again and just said “I’m sorry, I really don’t know what i was laughing at!”

OP posts:
MrsLargeEmbodied · 01/03/2022 07:32

so she was hysterical

pawpaws2022 · 01/03/2022 10:20

I was going to say she might have misheard
I asked a colleague quietly "have you got a tampon?" , she replied with "no but I've got some mints?"
I'm not sure who was more confused Grin
She thought I said gum...

Onlywomengivebirth · 01/03/2022 10:26

@obstacalling

What a silly thread.

Why didn't you ask? You won't find answers here

She did ask.
Bromse · 01/03/2022 10:36

@ConfusedNUpset

I asked her and she started laughing again and just said “I’m sorry, I really don’t know what i was laughing at!”
Well there you are then, you have your answer. She had a moment of madness.

Time to move on, ConfusedNUpset - but do get your hearing checked. My late husband went for ages mishearing things before I made him have a hearing test, after which he had bilateral, very small and discreet, hearing aids. Anyway he left them in his car one evening and the car was nicked from our drive :-). When it was eventually found, abandoned and wrecked, the hearing aids had gone along with other personal stuff. I could not persuade him to get some more, despite me offering to pay for them :-).

You may not need hearing aids, you could just have too much wax which is easily sorted.

Look after yourself.

eastegg · 01/03/2022 11:02

@obstacalling

What a silly thread.

Why didn't you ask? You won't find answers here

OP did ask. Read her post.

What a silly thing to do, to fail to read something properly then call it silly.

Crackery · 02/03/2022 07:13

Bill Bailey does a stand up sketch on the standard British response to such questions being ' not too bad' . It had me noticing that response from others after I watched it. Maybe she had recently watched that ?! #longshot #stillrude

https://m.facebook.com/BBCOne/videos/happy-australians-vs-happy-brits-bill-bailey-limboland/438826087428018/ bill]]

Westfacing · 02/03/2022 07:26

Probably nothing sinister - she just for whatever reason lost it!

Many years ago my now ex husband was on the phone ordering something and gave our postcode - he had to repeat and then resorted to the military alphabet to emphasise the letters D and T. He said something like Dog & Tango and with that started laughing which got progressively worse until he completely went into hysterics and eventually put the phone done to compose himself!

After about 10 minutes the poor girl phoned him back to check he was OK! Grin

Westfacing · 02/03/2022 07:29

And I've just remembered a colleague was asked if she was a Sagittarian - the reply was no I'm a demi-veg!

Lesserspottedmama · 02/03/2022 07:55

She might be having a breakdown?

Mitzi067 · 02/03/2022 12:48

ConfusedNUpset. I had this done to me by one colleague every time I came into the office when I'd had a haircut or new hairstyle. She would have incessant giggles, which made me feel awful. I used to dread changing my hair because of her. Some people are simply ignorant. I never found out the reason she did this. It is tantamount to being a form of bullying by making a person feel belittled.

ShittyFingers · 02/03/2022 12:49

@Mitzi067

ConfusedNUpset. I had this done to me by one colleague every time I came into the office when I'd had a haircut or new hairstyle. She would have incessant giggles, which made me feel awful. I used to dread changing my hair because of her. Some people are simply ignorant. I never found out the reason she did this. It is tantamount to being a form of bullying by making a person feel belittled.
That IS bullying. What a bitch
Br1256 · 03/03/2022 00:18

Let us know how you get on and if u solve the mystery

Unsure33 · 06/03/2022 23:20

I think it’s this :

www.facebook.com/watch/?v=438824770761483

Or Google bill Bailey not too bad

JustMaggie · 06/03/2022 23:43

She was probably either drunk or on drugs

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