I shouldn't take it personally I know, I am just feeling a bit low at the moment in terms of whether I am well-liked or not, though I really shouldn't care what anyone thinks.
Been with my partner for a few years and live together. He has a sister two years younger who lives around an hour away with her partner and young child. I've met her around 3 times now (obviously COVID pandemic prevented us seeing them more often) and it seemed that we got on fine, we've also slightly conversed over social media.
Anyway she's planning to come to see her brother soon. Not coming to see us, coming to see just my partner. Of course it's her brother and she's perfectly entitled to just want to see him.
However when they met last month it was just the two of them too.
I was sitting next to him and saw he was messaging her about it, I thought she may mention me coming along or ask if I was free too but no mention whatsoever. Nothing about 'coming to see you both' or 'when are you both free'.
My partner has invited me along as he's nice and likes me there but I feel uneasy going to things I'm not really welcome at, I suppose I feel a little disappointed she didn't mention me whatsoever.
My partner has 2 separate colleagues who invited him to parties. They didn't invite me as such, but he asked if he could bring me (I didn't ask him if I could go). It's really sweet of him (we don't go to everything together and we still do our separate things), they said yeah ok.
But I mean they didn't themselves invite me first or say 'you should bring X along'. They really don't have to, I could see it if they just wanted to catch up alone but these were big parties with a lot of people. They know me and I've met them a few times again.
Aibu to feel a bit sensitive about these things. I am really not entitled to be invited to everything, nobody is, I suppose I just felt a bit disappointed in these circumstances. Maybe they didn't mean it, it just makes me wonder if they aren't that keen on me but just don't want to seem rude to my partner.