Am I be unreasonable to be annoyed at my partner tonight. We don't live together. But every other Wednesday night they come to mine. When it gets to that night, there is always some drama or they say they're too tired blah blah.
Thing is I always go to there's, even if I'm tired I make an effort. They come pretty high in my priorities in life. But I feel like their work comes before me.
Tonight I became annoyed because I was trying to get a time out of them to come over tonight. I was suppose to be cooking tea for us so it was important to know a time. I'm also pretty hungry. They had again got caught up in work and was pretty late leaving. They said work had been busy and frankly the last thing on their mind was telling me a time. However I said but there are other people in your life to consider. They finish work at 3 so had availability to her phone to let me know. I get works busy that's not my issue but it's just being considerate of others to let them know if they're going to be late otherwise I'm sitting around not knowing what's going on.
It's the same every time it comes round to this Wednesday. They manage to get home on time on the nights I'm at theirs. Leaves early loads of other times but when it comes to this Wednesday to come to mine, there's an issue.