Apologies in advance for the essay but I want to try to give all relevant info.
TL:DR - my upper incisor filling has been replaced several times and I think it's about to come out again. What can I do?
Full version - NHS treatment. I had a small filling in my upper central incisor less than 3 years ago. Size was a little smaller than an uncooked grain of rice.
It's been replaced now 3 times. The first time it fell out within 12 months of the original filling, so it was replaced free of charge under guarantee. The dentist suggested it may have happened because of night-time tooth-grinding so suggested I buy an OTC mouth guard, which I did and used from that point onwards.
The replacement lasted just over 12 months before coming out again. I paid for a new filling.
That 3rd filling only lasted weeks before coming out. Before it fell out that time I was aware that the back of the tooth was feeling rough if I brushed my tongue against it.
It was replaced again under guarantee but as soon as the anaesthetic wore off I realised that the back of the tooth felt rough to the touch. I called the dentist for advice and went back the next day so she could smooth it off with her tools.
A few weeks later, in my routine check up, I commented that it still felt a little rough and I was anxious about this. I needed other fillings so I agreed to the dentist replacing the front tooth filling again at the same time. She reassured me that the repeated fillings weren't causing any damage as the filling was very small. She also said there was no reason why the filling may be coming out so frequently and said there wasn't anything she could do any differently.
The filling was replaced in September last year.
2 weeks ago, I developed an infection/abscess in a different tooth. The dentist gave me antibiotics for the infection but didn't arrange any follow-up treatment. (While in the waiting room I heard the receptionist calling patients to reschedule appointments so it's apparent they're really struggling at the surgery at the moment). Because of the pain I stopped using the mouthguard.
I realised a couple of days ago that the back of the front tooth is now feeling rough again, and this evening I have a little mild pain in that area. Obviously I'm convinced I'm about to lose the filling again.
Is this really just bad luck? Or is there anything that a non-NHS dentist may do differently (without removing the tooth)? I wouldn't mind paying for non-NHS treatment if there was a likelihood that it would actually stay put as a result.
Bonus points if anyone can personally recommend a good dentist in the SW Durham area of the UK.