I usually have quite a high sex drive and me and DP of 1 year usually sleep together regularly.
Since the start of Jan we've been going through a bit of a rough patch, I've felt disconnected and my sex drive has been much lower. We're still sleeping together but wayyyyy less than we were before.
DP brings it up every so often and I explain. We're working through things and our sex life has improved over the past couple of weeks but not where it was before. He has offered to give me oral a lot but I haven't felt like it, I haven't given it to him properly in ages and I know he really likes it but I just don't feel like it.
He says he won't ask again because it makes him feel cheap and like he's begging. He also says when he asks for sex and I say no, and then decide to after he says "come on" or similar a few times, it makes him feel shit.
It also frustrates/upsets him when I say we will have sex later but it doesn't end up happening.
Today he said "I've really been wanting head recently" and I told him I would give it to him at the weekend when he was home. He asked if I actually wanted to and I said yes, and explained again how my sex drive is down at the moment.
He asked if I thought it would ever go back to normal and I said yes, I think so.
I said that all the pressure surrounding it doesn't help and he said that "7 weeks of it being low will cause pressure in any relationship".
Is he right about that last statement?