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AIBU?

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Not ok for him to go for a drink with her

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WhatIsAcceptable · 20/02/2022 16:08

In line with my other thread asking if it is ok for a single woman to ask out a married man for drinks when she fancies him…

AIBU to think it is not OK for a married man to agree go out for drinks with a single woman on their own saying it is because they are friends, when he knows she has a crush on him.

YABU - it is fine for him to do this
YANBU - it’s not fine for him to do this

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BadNomad · 21/02/2022 10:26

No. It is no longer just a friendship when one person has non-platonic feelings for the other.

MissTrip82 · 24/01/2023 21:50

No, it’s not ok. The married man needs to not play with the single woman’s feelings and he needs to respect his wife and his marriage vows.

The single woman needs to lift her standards off the floor.

TrophyWifey · 24/01/2023 22:12

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Saracen · 25/01/2023 09:53

It's okay for him to do this, but why would he want to? It sounds very awkward. She might see it as encouragement and come on even stronger.

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