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To miss the excitement of 90's shops

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JunoLunar · 19/02/2022 11:15

Warning: pointless nostalgia
I love shopping but it's such a dull experience these days.
Maybe it was because I was younger and had such little disposable income. I miss shops selling you a 'lifestyle' as i really only get that feeling in IKEA now.
In particular I miss:
Body shop: the little shaped sponges of oranges, lemons, strawberries and the coordinating sprays, bubble baths and those little iridescent balls that went in the bath.
Disney shop: DD was obsessed with Encanto at Christmas and I had to trawl through what they had on so many different online shops. It would be amazing to have a Disney shop to see all the different merchandise and let her choose a few things. I remember the excitement of the lion king coming out and seeing the big displays with all the cuddly toys. I chose a pencil case with different compartments which hid rubbers, pens etc, think it had a calculator too (high tech!)
The Pier: totally up my hippie mums street. Used to have one of those CD players where you could listen to a snippet of rain music, whale music, wolves howling! Did anyone buy those cds? Also selling us the dream of a coloured glass bowl of water with floating tea lights which definitely didn't end up either getting spilt or left to go mouldy on the book shelf. I remember how grown up I felt buying a wooden cat which came in a stars and moon print paper bag.
Waterstones: I still love it now but loved it even more when there was no Amazon or kindles and you had to proper commit to a book to pay £8 for the hard cover.
HMV: I bought the single of 'Smooth' by Santana on tape and the long haired guy behind the till said 'nice choice'. I was sure I could write for Kerrang magazine based on that comment alone.
Also Debenhams in Bristol had in interactive forest with talking trees and a fake drive in cinema with little cars you could sit in and watch Disney films. It was basically ok for your parents to dump you there whilst they shopped. I vaguely remember going there but we never bought anything as it was ' too dear'.

OP posts:
Dibbydoos · 21/02/2022 07:38

OP you hit a nerve!!!

Shopping is a soulless experience these days, I still go to shops but there is no excitement anymore - no little cheapo clothes shops, Woollies (what a loss that was), C&A (if I ever go to Europe I always head to C&A), Habitat, Pier, Kumars... l

Even shops like New Look had just arrived on the scene, and they gave Top Shop, etc. a good run for their money, but now.... I just find dashing has lost its way. 😞

In the mid 80's earnt £11.18 for working friday night abd Saturday in a supermarket whilst studying for A levels. I used it to buy clothes and shoes, and go out on the lash once or twice a week. With a lot more disposable income now I don't think I hunt for bargains like I used to. I wonder if that's partly why shopping is a bit meh these days. I also live in the Midlands now and grew up in Manchester, so no Arndale centre to speak of unless I go to Brum....

boobot1 · 21/02/2022 07:40

@FionnulaTheCooler

I loved Internacionale, their fake leather tote bag was the only acceptable school bag for 16 year old school girls when I was that age. Also their home section Au Naturale where I wasted a lot of pocket money on tat like inflatable furniture and fluffy photo frames.
Yes, shopped there a lot and morgan.
boobot1 · 21/02/2022 07:47

@augustusglupe

I loved Athena, the Pier, and Past Times
Loved past times!
AFingerofFudge · 21/02/2022 07:50

@dogaibu I remember the Natural World shop - like wandering into a Jungle themed space with pan pipe music playing!
Pre - Covid when I was in France I went into a shop called Nature et Decouverte (or something like that) and it reminded me of Natural World!

boobot1 · 21/02/2022 07:55

@GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal

Yes, I miss 90s Body Shop! I was just thinking at Christmas that I'd have love to put together one those baskets with the little fruity soaps and bath pearls for my tween DD.

I grew up in the NE, and the Metro Centre in Gateshead was a place of wonder. I was particularly fond of the Mediterranean Village - my mates and I used to spend hours just mouching about in there.

And I have very fond memories of Fenwicks food hall. We used to go there once a month (just after pay day) and mum and grandma would treat us all to lovely cheese from the deli counter, and cream cakes from the bakery. Mum would get herself some nice coffee beans freshly ground from the coffee counter too.

Sigh. I wish it was possible to take a little holiday in your own past!

Every weekend me and my friends would go to the metrocentre, buy lots of tat and finish at metroland. I loved the 90s. The metro cost 20p. You could do loads with a fiver.
Twasacceptableinthe80s · 21/02/2022 07:57

@Iamtheweedonkey

I remember in the 1990's we had a shop called country charm, loved going in there, selling pot pourri and pine furniture. I remember getting my house a few years later and the shop was closed down. As a teen I loved our price and tower records, so so sad when they shut down.
@iamtheweedonkey, did you live in Bexleyheath? I remember a shop called Country Charm and I wanted everything in there. I did, however have a Saturday job at The Pier in Bluewater. I wonder how many people on here I served!? Could never really afford much myself but they did used to let us take broken stock so some of the lads used to go and drop boxes deliberately around Mother’s Day and Christmas so they could help themselves to the ‘seconds’ for gifts! Great days 😃. Bluewater is boring now…
DinosApple · 21/02/2022 08:02

I miss bath pearls - I've been trying to explain to my DC what they were.

I was talking to DD1 about the trips to London I used to go on with my friends as teens (she's 12). We'd catch a train, an hour in, hop on the Central Line and go to Oxford Street. I think Topshop was opposite the tube, plus a Skechers shop, and a Nike shop. We'd spend ages browsing.

Definitely seemed more fun back then, but these days my money is more tied up than then!

SparklingLime · 21/02/2022 08:49

You can still get bath pearls, @DinosApple:

www.etsy.com/uk/listing/937763302/bath-pearls-mixed-shapes

DinosApple · 21/02/2022 08:51

Ooo thank you!

rainbowmash · 21/02/2022 08:53

I normally roll my eyes at threads like these but every single thing you've listed made me smile, OP.

Body shop stuff used to be AWESOME. Little unique things, and those bath pearls were delightful! Now they just look like any higher-end high street bath/beauty products. I actually went in and asked about the bath pearls a few years ago, and was so sad when I found out they hadn't sold them for a decade...

Never thought I'd get to this stage of my life, but... stuff really used to be better, didn't it?

Bertiebiscuit · 21/02/2022 09:12

Totally agree - I used to love shopping, browsing, seeing what's about - the last few years I've noticed that all the shops are the same, dull, understaffed by grumpy unhelpful unskilled teenagers, full of beige polyester crap, same stupid music, no proper displays, security guards watching us all like hawks, it's like being back in soviet Russia, I hate it now, mainly shop in charity shops as they have nice staff, often well thought out displays, different stuff and generally nicer atmosphere

YouLando · 21/02/2022 10:12

I used to love all the shoe shops, like Dolcis, Freeman Hardy & Willis, Saxone etc. No there're very few around where I live, other than Clarks and Deichmans.

Moonlightdust · 21/02/2022 10:16

@rainbowmash

I normally roll my eyes at threads like these but every single thing you've listed made me smile, OP.

Body shop stuff used to be AWESOME. Little unique things, and those bath pearls were delightful! Now they just look like any higher-end high street bath/beauty products. I actually went in and asked about the bath pearls a few years ago, and was so sad when I found out they hadn't sold them for a decade...

Never thought I'd get to this stage of my life, but... stuff really used to be better, didn't it?

I loved all the unique different shaped/coloured bath pearls and remember collecting them in various pots at home! Also little scented soap - I remember having fruit shapes from the Body shop!

Going to the shops was a sensory experience. Sights with interesting displays/smells/touch, even sound in places like those shops mentioned ie The Natural world with nature music playing. It really does make me feel sad that it’s all gone Sad

I took my daughter to the city yesterday and we went to Claire’s which I found overpriced for what it is but there isn’t much choice left. The only other shops remotely interesting to mooch around are Primark, TK Max and Tiger.

How amazing would it be to have a shopping centre where all these much loved oldies were recreated!

BoredZelda · 21/02/2022 10:24

There were relatively few out of town retail parks before the mid ‘90s.
More and more started to appear at the same time online shopping was starting to take off.

The Trafford centre for example opened in 1998.

Online shopping in 2000 represented 0.8% of sales. It didn’t hit 10% until 2012 and only since then has there been any significant growth to its current 25% level.

But out of town retail isn’t just shopping malls, out of town supermarkets had a massive impact on the high street. There was a rapid expansion of these in the 90s, and they account for the largest share of retail across the entire sector. The high street isn’t just about clothing. Once upon a time this was where you found the baker and the greengrocer, and the butcher and the hardware store. Opening out of town self service supermarkets started to damage this trade as far back as the 50s. As these shops closed, they were eventually replaced with more non food offerings, but in the 60s supermarkets started selling clothing and homeware which started taking away chunks of trade from the high street. As the size and number of these superstores increased, high streets declined further. People can talk about what they see and when they think it happened and draw correlations but back when I wrote a paper on this at Uni in the mid 90s, the rot had already set in.

What is happening now with online shopping is, the out of town shopping malls are finding it harder to fill their units, with the bigger, anchor tenants like M&S cutting back and Debenhams going out of business.

BoredZelda · 21/02/2022 10:25

Freeman Hardy & Willis

I had forgotten about Free Hard Willys. Loved that shop.

BoredZelda · 21/02/2022 10:35

Totally agree - I used to love shopping, browsing, seeing what's about - the last few years I've noticed that all the shops are the same, dull, understaffed by grumpy unhelpful unskilled teenagers, full of beige polyester crap, same stupid music, no proper displays, security guards watching us all like hawks, it's like being back in soviet Russia

This is another problem. In the late 90s, we began to see “clone towns” where entire high streets started to take on this homogeneous look, there was a fashionable look both in the types of stores and the design and layout of town centres and footfall increased. This attracted the large chain stores back to town centres. But, as these started to fail, partly due to changing habits, partly due to recessions, and a lack of a coherent transport strategy, lack of parking, poor public transport links etc, then we saw the same problem of large empty units replicated across multiple towns and cities.

My own town centre is one of these. I’ve lived here since early 2000. Even back when I first moved here, the town centre was dead. 20 years on, it has just got worse.

browneyes77 · 21/02/2022 10:37

Ah I’ve found my people!

As a teenager in the 90’s I’d get the bus into town with my friends and we’d just walk around the shops.

The only place we’d usually buy stuff from was Mark One because that was the only place we could afford! Suffice to say we spent a lot of time in there Grin

user1497207191 · 21/02/2022 10:42

[quote NinaDefoe]BoredZelda

There were relatively few out of town retail parks before the mid ‘90s.
More and more started to appear at the same time online shopping was starting to take off.
The Trafford centre for example opened in 1998.

www.visualcapitalist.com/history-of-online-shopping/[/quote]
Trafford centre was very late to the party.

Newcastle's Metro centre opened in 1986.
Brent Cross opened in 1976!

In our town, we had Morrisons and Asda opening up huge out of town superstores in the early 90s that did massive damage to the town centre.

Internet shopping may have been around in the early 00's but it did really start taking off until around 2010. Pre covid (2019) online shopping only accounted for 20% of retail sales.

NotMeekNotObedient · 21/02/2022 13:57

@bendmeoverbackwards

Yes, I fondly remember Clements. I remember trying on bridesmaids dresses with my mum and best friend for fun (no wedding imminent!) one summer holidays Grin.

I miss local department stores.

ColdTattyWaitingForSummer · 21/02/2022 14:04

I know our city has planning rules that don’t allow clothes shops on the out of town retail parks.. I don’t know how common that is? So you can find Next homewares, but have to go into town for their clothing store. However they do allow supermarkets, which obviously do sell clothes, and kind of defeats the object. Our city centre has lost so many big names the last few years.. most recently topshop and Debenhams, but before that La Senza, BHS, etc. What used to be Zara is now a vaccination centre.

Diamondsareforever123 · 21/02/2022 14:27

Ahhhhhh Biba. NOW that was THE shop. Why oh why did that have to die?????

Blossomtoes · 21/02/2022 14:36

@Diamondsareforever123

Ahhhhhh Biba. NOW that was THE shop. Why oh why did that have to die?????
Shoplifters’ corner. It went bust.
Girlfrom15YearsAgo · 21/02/2022 16:09

I’ve read the first few pages but not (yet) the full thread and am loving this nostalgia-fest. I miss 90’s River Island so much. I think White Stuff have sort-of filled the gap for people of my age in terms of the vintage look of the shops but the clothes aren’t the same sort of style. I was devastated with RI went all shiny and modern, rather than the dark wood fixtures, old suitcases and lovely lacey dresses.

Agree also with all the comments re Body Shop. The stuff was both aspirational and relatively affordable as a 90s teenager. I was definitely a dewberry girl and my best friend was white musk. One of the branches near me had one of those amazing perfume bars that a PP mentioned. Little jars with droppers and pipettes – I’m sure you could create your own scent there but I might have misremembered. I remember saving money for a body shop T-shirt which had the brand name and “against animal cruelty”. My parents didn’t understand why I would pay so much (I think it was around £14) just to give a shop free advertising whereas I thought this was the coolest thing I had ever owned. My parents certainly couldn’t understand why I aspired to wear this but refused anything to do with The Sweater Shop, which I found far too trendy and mainstream for my liking.

Apologies if I’ve overlooked any posts but wondering if anyone has yet mentioned the Waverly Market in Edinburgh. This was 90s shopping heaven – the water and mechanical fountains and the little carriage type stalls dotted around selling lots of arty-crafty stuff. The centre itself also had Kookai, The Natural World, The Body Shop, Bay Trading and Athena. There was a Coda Music shop which was really expensive compared to other record shops but had a great bargain bin where you could often pick up cassette albums which were a few year old, or band T-shirts very cheaply. There was a section downstairs just off the food hall with individual stalls selling things like lava lamps and fibre optic ufo lamps, grassheads and plants in vases filled with a sort of gel – we used to try to stick our fingers in until getting told off by the sales assistants. There was also an amazing shop which had a tree in the middle and sold lots of wooden items – lots of stamps and stencils but also beads for jewellery making and those pens and pencils which looked like tree branches. I bought loads of tiny clothes-pegs from there and would braid my hair into tiny plaits at the very front, fastened with the pegs.

Aside from Waverley Market (which is utterly soulless and corporate now), Edinburgh 90’s teenage shopping heaven also involved Cockburn Street – Pie in the Sky (still there but in a different and much smaller outlet and not the same at all) for hippy/grungy clothes and loads of other shops selling candles, incense sticks, tapestry wall hangings, nail polish and hair dyes in loads of different colours. I also fondly remember Foreign Affair on Rose Street for more of the same and Helios Fountain on the Grassmarket for beads/jewellery making, incense, worry dolls, and all sorts of amazing stuff.

Back on the High Street, I agree with those who miss 90’s Boots. The third floor on Princes Street had the lovely gift and homeware stuff and also a café which had the very best baked potato in town. Whenever I went shopping with mum, that was our favourite lunch spot.

Lastly, yes, the loss of The Pier is something I still haven’t gotten over. There really is nowhere like it now. I wanted to have a house filled with wicker furniture, huge chunky wine glasses with coloured rims, mosaics everywhere and wooden screens to divide rooms into sections. I’m lucky in that I managed to get my dining table from there in around 2003 and have kept it (lovely big chunky dark wood) and I still have some candles going strong.

Octopus37 · 21/02/2022 17:27

The Body Shop isn't the same, but I bough some gorgeous Pumpkin & Vanilla hand cream last year.

woodhill · 21/02/2022 17:42

[quote NotMeekNotObedient]@bendmeoverbackwards

Yes, I fondly remember Clements. I remember trying on bridesmaids dresses with my mum and best friend for fun (no wedding imminent!) one summer holidays Grin.

I miss local department stores.[/quote]
Yes, I liked Clements

Also the toy section of. Ootd - Octopul and hiking Heidi