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Do they have to give him the day off?

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Kickers567 · 17/02/2022 08:52

I am having a medical procedure with sedation tomorrow and the letter says I have to have someone with me for 12 hours after to make sure I'm safe. My husband is the only option.

We had a week and a half notice, he told his manager as soon as we knew and asked for annual leave. His manager hasn't said no, but also hasn't said yes.

Am I right in thinking they have to him give the day off, like if your child was sick?

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Lockheart · 17/02/2022 08:54

They don't have to give him the day off, but they haven't said no yet. Get him to chase it up.

Pyri · 17/02/2022 08:54

They don’t “have” to do anything, why doesn’t he ask his manager again if it’s ok?

ChessieFL · 17/02/2022 08:55

I don’t think they HAVE to, no. There is a legal right to (unpaid) emergency leave for dependants which is what you would be entitled to if your child was ill, but I don’t think this would count as you’ve had notice.

I think it will depend on his annual leave policy and whether the business can support him not being in that day.

fairylightsandwaxmelts · 17/02/2022 08:56

No, of course they don't have to give him the day off.

AllOfUsAreDead · 17/02/2022 08:58

Why hasn't he chased this before now? He should have chased it, now he's left it this late they might say no. Hope they don't.

NeverTouchWarmPants · 17/02/2022 08:59

No they don't have to but hopefully they will. Hope it all goes well for you

thisplaceisweird · 17/02/2022 08:59

Of course they don't. They should, but they don't have to.

WhatTheWhoTheWhatThe · 17/02/2022 09:01

If they haven’t said no it’s probably OK but they may have forgotten in which case him not chasing up until the day before could make it a problem. Why has he just left it without getting confirmation?

Kickers567 · 17/02/2022 09:04

Okay, thanks, yeah he is chasing it up, will stop telling him that they have to, and tell him to suck up and offer to do a weekend shift or something instead, rather than just like I was thinking "he already gave as much notice as possible so it's their fault they haven't arranged cover"

Lol silly me.

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ChessieFL · 17/02/2022 09:05

Hope all goes well with your procedure OP.

Kickers567 · 17/02/2022 09:05

He has chased it up a few time and been told they are "looking into it."

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FlossMoss · 17/02/2022 09:10

Can he swap with someone? Sort it himself then offer it to management as a fait au complit?

WhatTheWhoTheWhatThe · 17/02/2022 09:13

Well they’re being unnecessarily difficult then but yeah probably best if he offers to do an extra shift elsewhere instead.

Hope all goes well

Kickers567 · 17/02/2022 09:42

Thanks for the good wishes. :)

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