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midnight90 · 16/02/2022 13:31

So for Xmas me and hubby received a voucher for our favourite place to eat and it's more then we would normally spend in one sitting. So he suggested to invite a friend he works with. This friend is a woman that he messages all the time, he has shown me messages from her on his phone but it feels like it's constant.
She has a boyfriend and he would be coming too unless he is working and can't come. So then it would just be the three of us. I suggested that we use the voucher soon as I give birth in a few months and we could go out twice with it. Am I being unreasonable, maybe

As we don't do takeaways at all I've got.to.cook all the time even when he has had the day off and I've been working. I really miss just chilling out in front of the TV ordering a takeaway even once a month. Can't even have a bath as it costs too much to fill up. Not that I mind at the moment with prices hiking up and I can't really relax in a bath for more then 15 mins I get bored. Anyway that last bit I think I just needed to vent.

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Notimeforaname · 16/02/2022 16:01

I'm going to speak to him tonight about it, and say that I want to use it for two nights out before baby comes. It was my mum that got us the voucher

Oh absolutely. Take care of yourself op.

LottyD32 · 16/02/2022 16:05

Why are you having a kid with someone that says they can't cook?

Expect to do everything with no help from him op, this won't get any better.

LottyD32 · 16/02/2022 16:06

I'd also be snooping into this relationship with this woman, it sounds too much like an emotional affair imo.

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