My daughter has come out of secondary school today really mad and upset at some of her classmates for talking in class. As they didn't stop talking/ fooling around, the whole class has been punished with extra work.
I'm thinking about complaining to the school but don't want to be 'that' parent. This seems to be an ongoing issue though with 4 or 5 students who are continually disruptive in different classes and the class gets a collective punishment. However, as my daughter says the students who are causing the issue don't care as they don't do the other work in the first place.
I have asked her to speak directly to the teacher after class but she says that another student already tried to plead the case of the other students. Teacher said they know it wasn't all of the students but the work still stands.
Not saying for a second that my child is an angel but she does have extra needs so she is very truthful and honest - sometimes to a fault! I'm sure she has been talking at times in the last few months. I'm under no allusion.
I just think it is wrong and all it has done is upset and make my child (I'm sure many others)frustrated and hate school. Surely the collective punishment is a thing of the past? She feels now, why be good and do her work and still get punished.
This is not a teacher bashing thread, I can imagine how difficult it is with all the disruption. My aibu is should I speak with school and if so what should I say? Doubt they will change their behaviour strategy just for me though!! Or should I just tell my daughter to suck it up?
YABU suck it up
YANBU speak with school