What a disappointing valentines...

13 replies

noweetabix · 14/02/2022 21:58

He got cards, chocolate, sweets and a meal. I can't even get a bowl of weetabix.

Should I leave him?

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PurpleDaisies · 14/02/2022 21:59

What’s the history? Had you agreed what you were doing for Valentine’s Day? Is he usually a good partner?

DebbieHarrysCheekbones · 14/02/2022 22:02

What do you mean “cards”
More than one?

Nicknacky · 14/02/2022 22:03

Leave him solely because of Valentine’s Day or something more? Some folk just don’t do valentines and I don’t blame them!

Layoverlife · 14/02/2022 22:05

Absolutely LTB 😒

LubaLuca · 14/02/2022 22:06

Why is Weetabix an important part of your Valentine's Day?

Anyway, I got a weird candle holder. I'm not leaving him over that, because he's generally a good and decent husband.

AlphabetStew · 14/02/2022 22:17

Why can't you get a bowl of Weetabix?

Flickflak · 14/02/2022 22:25

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blanketyblanked · 14/02/2022 22:27

No further information required about your relationship to say a definitive, resounding, categorical L.T.B!!!!!!!

MichelleScarn · 14/02/2022 22:29

Is this going to be a daft one where your 'valentine' is your 10 yo son?

MrsTerryPratchett · 14/02/2022 22:30

I can't stand vaguebooking, which is a MN version of.

DreamTheMoors · 14/02/2022 22:32

Why all the emphasis on one day in February, ginned up by the greeting card companies?

Is he normally good to you? Is he a good person, husband, father? I wouldn’t judge someone on the basis of 1 day out of 365.

Boomshack · 14/02/2022 23:36

If you judge your relationship by a corporate holiday you are pretty silly.

GettingThemFromHereToThere · 14/02/2022 23:38

Valentine's is so overrated. It literally means nothing.

If he's usually caring then just adjust your expectations. Either dont get him anything in the future, or agree to both get stuff. Don't try to do surprises if you have different expectations.

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