To be upset with DP

[TomAllenWife]

We were out together Friday nite for a big family birthday
Saturday he was out all day with family & friends (just men)
Yesterday he was a bit of a dick to me in the morning but later apologised.
Then went out again last nite with same visiting family.

AIBU that it would've been nice to be asked to go out yesterday even though I would've declined.
AIBU to be upset that he's read my valentines message this morning but is obvs too hungover to reply

He can be so kind and caring but sometimes he's a selfish prick!

(We don't live together but are engaged and renovating our new home)

What a load of carry on about nothing!

@Teeturtle

You seem to be just looking for an argument / reason to fall out. It sounds as though you like the drama?

^this spot on.

Also agree with the comment about you playing games getting upset because you weren't invited to something you had no interest in. Ridiculous.

YANBU Op.
I always ask my DH if he wants to come to something even when I know he won't.

@Electriq

YANBU Op. I always ask my DH if he wants to come to something even when I know he won't.

Even if you don't want him there?

How very odd. You want him to invite you out with his family even though you didn’t want to go and are pissed he didn’t respond quick enough to your text?

That’s not great op really is it?