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To ask my neighbours not to hang dead animals from their fence?

246 replies

Bdg212 · 12/02/2022 15:08

New neighbours like to shoot. That’s their choice, but they hang the animals they kill from their front garden fence for all to see. It’s usually pheasants and sometimes rabbits. Aibu to think this is pretty inconsiderate behaviour? I’m veggie and find it quite upsetting. There are kids about too.

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toastfiend · 13/02/2022 19:33

I've been guilty of hanging pheasants at the front of our house before. It's not to be performative, but if I hung them in the back garden my dogs would eat them so I don't have masses of choice. We haven't got a shed and I do the laundry in the garage so don't really want dead pheasants hanging over the clean clothes. 🤷‍♀️

To my mind, it's no different than walking past a butcher's window and, yes, a fact of life when living in a rural area. If that's the only bad thing about your neighbours then personally I'd let it slide and just be grateful that they're obviously pretty reasonable people otherwise, if that's the worst you can say of them.

winterchills · 13/02/2022 19:40

I wouldn't be happy with this at all. Really inconsiderate

Giggorata · 13/02/2022 20:37

I really don't think it's inconsiderate or unkind to giggle (actually, I meant to write goggle) a bit at people who object to game or meat hanging up in view.
It used to be the norm in every butcher's shop and is still done in the country.
We seem to have a culture nowadays where people's sensibilities are rather fragile, which I understand is not very nice for them, but I don't think that everything should be sanitised as a result of that.
We even had newcomers to the village complaining about noisy tractors driving through!

Skinnydog · 13/02/2022 20:43

I remember reading on here someone moaned horse riders don’t pick their poo up and they drove through it I thought that was quite funny and bizarre, love to see their reaction at a slurry pit lol

JimmyDurham · 13/02/2022 20:58

@SoupDragon

it is to hang the meat before they eat it.

Do people generally leave it to "hang" outside for this?

Yes if it's between shooting and plucking/drawing.
Giraffesandbottoms · 13/02/2022 21:59

@Skinnydog

Great post

Jux · 14/02/2022 00:09

Use it as a 'teachable moment' for your kids.

wombat1a · 14/02/2022 02:18

It might not be them doing it, they might be gifts from others who have dropped them off while they were out.

I find the whole 'I am a vegan who walks down this public path past your private home therefore you must do things not to offend me' principle quite ridiculous.

Hobbesmanc · 14/02/2022 11:55

Hmm I was brought up in the country and all my mum's family farm. There was quite often a brace of pheasant hanging of the kitchen door donated by neighbours although my mum couldn't stomach it and discreetly passed them to an elderly aunt who made pate.

But they would never be left outside for long. Magpies would be straight in for the eyes. Sounds like showing off to me.

I can remember reading about the gamekeepers gibbets as a kid and being horrified at the thought of owls, squirrels, crows, weasels, foxes, pole cats etc being trapped or shot and displayed as a deterrent to other animals (or more likely a gamekeeper showing off their work)

As for Pheasants they are reared to be shot and sadists pay good money to have fun shooting them. There is no justification for this sport. They are semi domesticated so they live their short brutal lives vulnerable to all predators as well as cars before being blasted from the skies- often wounded to be dispatched by hand. We might have concerns about the rearing of poultry - but they aren't shot by untrained randoms on a corporate shoot

Also its false that game birds are part of the food chain. True some goes to restaurants and I'm sure some is eaten by some of the game hunters (usually the tiny breasts- rest is wasted) . But the fact is there just isn't a market outside of specialist butchers and most is landfill.

Like fox hunting I'm just not accepting that the low paid temp work for beaters is worth the sadistic cruelty of corporate slaughter. Just stop breeding them. Some will survive as feral birds and might even thrive.

goawaystormy · 14/02/2022 13:05

I find the whole 'I am a vegan who walks down this public path past your private home therefore you must do things not to offend me' principle quite ridiculous.

Yup, and that combined with the 'think of the upset children' reminds me distinctly of extreme religious and conservative groups who tell other that what they're doing in their own home is their business but they shouldn't publicise it/should keep it behind closed doors because it's shameful and to protect the sensibilities of others.

EdithStourton · 14/02/2022 18:16

Also its false that game birds are part of the food chain
I beat on a local shoot, and all the game that is shot is eaten. I'm always up for a brace or two, and if I don't want them I know plenty of people who do.

The butcher on our local market also sells game in season from local shoots and stalkers.

Gowithme · 14/02/2022 18:45

We were given pheasants by people shooting on our farm when I was young as they never knew what to do with them all, they always went in the bin. Nobody wants all that faff for a bird with hardly any meat on it IME. Let's face it no one buys it from the supermarket already plucked so why the fuck would they want one unplucked?

Pheasant shooting is so ridiculous, you couldn't find a stupider, louder bird. It's really no achievement IMO. Just a pathetic way for men who sit in an office all week to think their some kind of amazing macho super hero who could survive in the wilds.

SamphiretheStickerist · 14/02/2022 18:55

Also its false that game birds are part of the food chain.

Crikey, ours never have enoughbirds, even at the height of the season. Between local pubs and restaurants, shooters, beaters, neighbours etc there is always someon wanting more than can be sourced. And most people mince the caracsses for their dogs.

Like fox hunting I'm just not accepting that the low paid temp work for beaters is worth the sadistic cruelty of corporate slaughter. That's a narrow view of the economy around it you have!

Latest (I think) figures are

Shooters spend £2.5 billion each year on goods and services
Shooting is worth £2 billion to the UK economy (GVA)
Shooting supports the equivalent of 74,000 full-time jobs
Shooting is involved in the management of two-thirds of the rural land area
Nearly two million hectares are actively managed for conservation as a result of shooting
Shoot providers spend nearly £250 million a year on conservation
At least 600,000 people in the UK shoot live quarry, clay pigeons or targets
Existing industry information shows that there are at least 1.6m individuals who shoot live quarry with an airgun
Shooters spend 3.9 million work days on conservation – the equivalent of 16,000 full-time jobs

www.shootingfacts.co.uk

eekbumbler · 16/02/2022 02:06

Danny.

He was the champion of the world.

Starryskiesinthesky · 16/02/2022 02:20

Totally barbaric killling the animals / birds and then displaying their kill. I think if they are the kind to do this they are also the kind of people who won't listen to reason.

Starryskiesinthesky · 16/02/2022 02:22

@SamphiretheStickerist

Also its false that game birds are part of the food chain.

Crikey, ours never have enoughbirds, even at the height of the season. Between local pubs and restaurants, shooters, beaters, neighbours etc there is always someon wanting more than can be sourced. And most people mince the caracsses for their dogs.

Like fox hunting I'm just not accepting that the low paid temp work for beaters is worth the sadistic cruelty of corporate slaughter. That's a narrow view of the economy around it you have!

Latest (I think) figures are

Shooters spend £2.5 billion each year on goods and services
Shooting is worth £2 billion to the UK economy (GVA)
Shooting supports the equivalent of 74,000 full-time jobs
Shooting is involved in the management of two-thirds of the rural land area
Nearly two million hectares are actively managed for conservation as a result of shooting
Shoot providers spend nearly £250 million a year on conservation
At least 600,000 people in the UK shoot live quarry, clay pigeons or targets
Existing industry information shows that there are at least 1.6m individuals who shoot live quarry with an airgun
Shooters spend 3.9 million work days on conservation – the equivalent of 16,000 full-time jobs

www.shootingfacts.co.uk

It doesn't make it right.
tuesdayisthebestday · 16/02/2022 08:16

@Starryskiesinthesky

Totally barbaric killling the animals / birds and then displaying their kill. I think if they are the kind to do this they are also the kind of people who won't listen to reason.
Opinion is not reason. And it works both ways - how likely are you to listen to theirs?!
SamphiretheStickerist · 16/02/2022 08:24

@Starryskiesinthesky

You have an opinion, others disagree.

londonrach · 16/02/2022 08:29

On the fence re this too. DD used to seeing animals die as we not had a good run recently with our chickens sadly. She accepts it as part of life which kinda why we have them anyway. It's his fence so you can't complain

Bridgetina · 16/02/2022 08:56

On the fence re this too

Rather appropriate.

VestaTilley · 16/02/2022 09:17

Have they moved in recently or are you new to the area?

If it’s a rural area and you’ve only just moved in I’m afraid you need to just live with it - it’s their house and they’re obviously used to doing this.

Game (partridges, pheasants etc) do need to be hung for a few days as it hugely improves the flavour.

You can politely ask them if there’s anywhere else they could hang their killings, but if they say no then you just have to get on with it I’m afraid.

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