I won't go into the details but for me there had been a couple of behaviours from him that suggested he liked her, not necessarily mutual but I just felt something.
I have already previously spoken to him once or twice about some concerns but i didn't outwardly ask if he liked her as such.
Anyway something happened and I decided to just confront him otherwise it would be eating away at me. He said it wasn't the case at all and he didn't like her in that way.
I guess even if he did he'd never admit it but I am having to accept that people in happy relationships still do have crushes sometimes and that it's human nature.
There's nothing at all I can do so the best approach for me would be to never mention it again, which I haven't done since. I saw the other day he was texting her because she'd heard he was unwell but I just got out a book and put any thoughts to the back of my mind.
Things have still seemed great since but I feel anxious inside of me and stressed. What if he tells people what I said or decides I'm too much of a jealous sort.
For the record I don't think I am. In the 2 years I've been with him I've never otherwise suggested he likes someone else. I'd say there have been 3-4 times in 2 years where I've felt a little jealous because of comments he'd made or whatever, we discussed it and moved on but that's all. He has some female friends etc. And we have our own interests, nights out and so on.
I'm trying to work on this, I know it is normal to feel jealousy from time to time as long as we recognize it and try to overcome it.