This is really none of my business anymore, but my DS's dad broke up with his girlfriend (who he started seeing while I was pregnant with DS who is now 2.10) 18 months ago. Since then he has repeatedly told me that they no longer sleep together - without me asking (most I do is raise an eyebrow sarcastically when I realise he's come to see DS driving her car or something). I found out today, in an admittedly dodgy way, that they never stopped sleeping together and that he still talks to her about getting back together.
Now we don't sleep with each other or anything like that - but it pisses me off to the highest that he lies like this when there is absolutely NO need. It has really annoyed me and any like or respect that I had left for him (albeit miniscule)has completely evaporated. Moreso because I can see that he is stringing her along exactly as he used to do with me.
It's the lying when he doesn't even have any obligation towards me re: who he's sleeping with.
I already have issues re: men and trust and this has worsened things. I understand that he is not representative of all men, but I also know that there are loads of similar lying bs walking around and I really want no part of them.
I'm just praying my son, who I can already see is similar to him in a lot of ways, isn't such a deceitful git when he grows up