It was with a man who I had both been on a course and worked with, he was 20 years older than me and married with kids.
Had to work closely with him on projects. Initially he'd tell me that I was 'very pretty' but it was in response to me being depressed about not being able to meet a serious boyfriend so I thought he was just trying to be nice.
However I then changed my profile picture once on WhatsApp and he told me "Wow, I bet the boys at your school love you."
He invited me to his once for tea when his wife and kids were there, and once alone to help him with coursework, I don't know why I went. My parents dropped me off and thought he was a bit weird (I was 24 at the time).
Anyway one day out of nowhere he texted me saying 'If I weren't happily married, I'd whisk you away in a heartbeat."
I didn't even reply anything, I was lost for words.
Found it so disrespectful to his wife, I'd be gutted if my partner even thought that about another woman let alone said it.
Just kept a lot of distance since, very occasional happy birthday message etc. But haven't seen him in years now. Looking back i should have told him where to go.
Would you be happy with your partner saying such things?