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winter coats would you really spend £100 on a 4 year old?

138 replies

pombears22 · 02/02/2022 12:52

Was talking about this with a mum friend this morning - around us most kids wear coats that cost around 100 quid. To me that just seems a bit mad for a pre-schooler when others are so much cheaper. I mean how much technology does a pre-schooler need for a British winter. Same with waterproofs etc etc - somehow I just thought that kids dont really need this stuff but I've only just moved back to the UK so unsure whether am totally off the mark here

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LIZS · 02/02/2022 12:54

Even when we lived in a bitterly cold location h and m winter or puffer coat was adequate. You just layer it up.

Aroundtheworldin80moves · 02/02/2022 12:55

Maybe £100 in total. Reasonably warm coat for nursery/school. Waterproofs(top and bottoms. Summer jacket. Spare coat if they have a tendency for falling in puddles.

But not on one coat.

fighoney · 02/02/2022 12:55

Well cold toddlers are pretty miserable to be around. But no I wouldn't spend that much. Wouldn't really annoy me if someone else did though 🤷🏻‍♀️

LadyCleathStuart · 02/02/2022 12:56

No way. It's just showing off. I always bought my kids M&S stormwear jackets and they were great quality and only about £30. A few years ago I bought an Asda jacket for DS as a quick replacement after he ruined his winter jacket at school and was really impressed by that quality also for £20.

I am not a clothes snob though and so many people are. I have seen it on here, people feeling like they are failing their children because they bought them supermarket wellies, it's madness.

oviraptor21 · 02/02/2022 12:57

Don't get started on shoes OP!

pombears22 · 02/02/2022 12:57

I am not annoyed that other people spend that much on a coat. More like thats basically all that other kids wear. I am still navigating British brands etc so was interested in where other people buy kids' clothes from. I come from a country where winters really are bitter so I know that warm clothes are important - it's just that British winters are pretty mild

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3WildOnes · 02/02/2022 12:58

Where are they buying coats from? I live in a fairly wealthy part of SW London and have never noticed any flashy brands. I sometimes spend around £50 on my kids coats, quite often I’ll pick up good quality ones in a charity shop so don’t spend much at all.

GigantosaurusRex · 02/02/2022 12:58

I bought DS a supermarket coat on sale this week to be put away for next year. I can't imagine spending £100 on a kids coat.

EsmeeMerlin · 02/02/2022 12:59

My youngest son will turn 4 next month. His coat for next winter is already bought and cost me £3 from a charity store and is originally from marks and Spencer’s. He will also have a waterproof all in one which was bought from lidl. Spending £100 on a child’s coat is silly imo.

pombears22 · 02/02/2022 12:59

@oviraptor21 - definitely. I mean 70-80 quid for a pair of shoes they'll grow out of in three months. In fact, kids' shoes budget seems higher than mine and we are talking about 4 year olds.

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Malacath · 02/02/2022 12:59

Erm no, £100 is crazy, I don't even spend that much on myself! (although my current coat came pretty close Blush). Definitely not for a child though.
Waterproof is always a good idea, but shower proof could do if you have the option to drive. I don't drive, so we usually cycle to school, and sometimes walk or use scooters. We need properly waterproof coats, but my children's current coats were £15 and £25 from Tresspass when they had a sale on. They've been warm and dry so far, so I don't see the point in spending any more on a coat Wink

CuteOrangeElephant · 02/02/2022 13:00

I spent 50 quid on a lovely Boden coat for my 4 year old (on sale). I wouldn't spend 100.

mistermagpie · 02/02/2022 13:00

Mine get a mountain warehouse jacket every year, they always have a sale on and are about £30 ish and great quality.

Waterproofs usually from Lidl, wellies from there or Asda etc.

I've got three young kids so there's no way I would be paying £100 on one coat, it's ridiculous. We obviously get extra wear out of hand me downs too.

girlmom21 · 02/02/2022 13:01

Honestly have a look in the Debenhams sale. They've got some nice 'proper' Regatta coats reduced to £15/20

NuffSaidSam · 02/02/2022 13:01

I wouldn't spend £100 on a coat for a 4 year old.

But it depends what £100 means to you. For some people £100 is £5. For some people £100 is a £1000. Depends what you have.

TwinkleToesStrikesAgain · 02/02/2022 13:02

Ebay all the way

FunkyPhantom · 02/02/2022 13:02

Find your nearest TK Maxx, job done 😆👍

RedskyThisNight · 02/02/2022 13:03

I used to buy second hand at that age. So you could get a good condition, more expensive coat for about a fiver.

I don't think my 4 year old's entire wardrobe cost £100!

madisonbridges · 02/02/2022 13:03

I don't spend £100 on a coat for me and I make them last several winters. It's madness to spend that on a 4yo. More money than sense.

cherryonthecakes · 02/02/2022 13:04

I would spend £100 total on 2 coats, waterproofs, wellies and thermal vests

My teenager wears a £100 jacket but he's man sized and likes brands (North Face) Even in primary where he walked to school each day (so needed a warmer coat than kids who travel by car) , his coat was under £50 and he'd have a cheaper supermarket spare

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 02/02/2022 13:04

hell no, 20-35quid m&s or next

Comedycook · 02/02/2022 13:04

Absolutely no way. My dd is currently wearing a lovely warm coat from Next that I bought on ebay for £6...it was barely worn. Just bought my teenage ds a new coat, £35 from sports direct. I wouldn't spend £100 even if I could afford it.

RandomQuest · 02/02/2022 13:05

I buy mine north face coats a year ahead in the sale, full price they’re usually about £80 but in the sale they’re more like £50-60. Coats are the one thing I’m very happy to spend on.

Orangejuicey · 02/02/2022 13:07

Not in this country, no. We used to live in a country where the winters could get to -45 degrees Celsius and I bought an £80 coat then for DC. But absolutely not necessary in this country. Having said that, I do think it’s worth getting a good coat having lived in a much colder place, and so now only tend to buy coats from the hiking/ outdoors shops because they are very good quality. But I buy the rest of their clothes from Asda or other supermarkets.

RobertsRadio · 02/02/2022 13:07

I'd never spend that much for a child that age, they will have outgrown that in no time, such a waste of money. If you live in a wealthy area then I'd check out your local charity shops, chances are you will find decent kid's clothes for much less than £100. And you are right about U.K. winters being mild, so it's possible just to layer up rather than buying a high tech coat for sub zero temperatures.