We go to lunch together. Both of us are “figure conscious” in that we eat what we need, don’t overeat and exercise to try and stay slim. She has started slimming world so can eat all green foods one day and all red foods another but not to mix the two. I think green means pasta etc and red is meats etc.
She always points out “look at all I am eating compared to you” in front of other people and I feel embarrassed like she is making me look anorexic (for reference I was eating a mugshot).
We went out for a meal the other week and half way through the dessert I wasn’t enjoying it so I stopped eating it and she got really pissed off with me and said “how come you’re not eating the rest of your dessert?” She said it with a really pissed off tone and all our other colleagues looked round at what I’d left.
If we attend a Buffett at work she will look what I’ve got on my plate and make a comment “is that all you’re eating??” Or she’ll say “there’s carrots and dips over there because I know your watching your weight”
I just feel gobsmacked and really embarrassed when she says these comments and dread it. The thing is it’s not like I’m underweight or anything - I’m 10/12 and she is slimmer than me.
Am I just being too sensitive ? I just hate everyone thinking I’m anorexic and/or commenting on my food intake