My partner does nothing. I have 2 children a 3 year old and a 4 month old. I am up multiple times in the night right now as my baby is teething and my 3 year old has been unsettled with sleeping for around a year now. At 3am this morning I was holding my teething baby whilst trying to settle my 3 year old back to sleep while my partner slept on the sofa. He isn't going to work (self employed) and universal credit has told him he's no longer gainfully self employed and therefore needs to find a job. I have had multiple discussions with him regarding mental health. I have supported him and continue to support him. I feel like I'm drowning. I'm sleep deprived and I'm exhausted before I've even started the day. He will not see a doctor. I just feel like calling it a day now. I am becoming depressed myself in this situation and I try to hide it from my children but I had to hold back tears last night.