I was severely injured in an emergency ventouse delivery in September. I was induced and after about two hours of pushing I developed an infection and fever and the baby went into distress. He was safely delivered via ventouse and spent two days in the nicu but I suffered a 3a perineal tear, bilateral tears along my labia minora and clitoral hood, and a mild bladder prolapse. After the doctor left, the nurse told me that the baby wouldn't come out because his head was cocked to one side. She was correct- the ventouse mark was on the right side of the baby's head, above his ear. I didn't think much of this at the time but I have recently learned that this is called an asynclitic presentation and that most asynclitic babies are born via c-section to avoid precisely the situation that we suffered. AIBU to think that this constitutes medical negligence? Thankfully, I suffered the worst of it but this situation was dangerous for both of us. At very least, shouldn't I have been informed that the baby was malpositioned while I was pushing and given the option of a section before there was an emergency?