Longing for 3rd child - partner doesn't

[raindrops21]

long post sorry!

I've two beautiful boys 10years and almost 1 year old. I know I should be 'happy' but I really feel I'm not done and want a third and my partner said he's happy with 2. then he says we'll you don't know what will happen in the future!

my head is melted and don't know how to get over this feeling! how did anyone if you had this?

I've such a longing that I'm not 'done' yet. am I really selfish 😭

How can we move past this??

Thanks for reading x

You accept you are done- if another partner doesn’t want any more you have tor respect their wishes. The cost the lifestyle difference, it’s not unreasonable to stop at 2. I think you embrace the stages your children are at and coo over babies like we all do.