I have posted before about this, and I know there have been a few similar threads done recently but I really feel like I am going batshit so advice and experiences are very welcome. I am happily married and accepted a friend request recently from an old, old ex. This was the first boy I really connected with and had a sexual relationship with, and I always kept running back to him after it ended even though I can see now he was just using me for sex. He two timed me with another girl and takes to other girls behind my back. I don’t regret the relationship though because when I met my next boyfriend (who is now my husband) I was very very firm that I was not up for being treated like shit and didn’t bother with any silly twats since. I accepted the request purely out of curiosity, and if I’m really honest, smugness, as I look very happy and healthy and have a very good life and wanted him to see. Petty I know! But lately he has been occupying a great deal of my headspace. I get a little excited if he likes my photos and find myself wondering what will I do if I bump into him, what would I say etc? I definitely shouldn’t care this much. I don’t think I’m even thinking of him in a fancying sort of way just far too much and often if that makes sense! Does this sound like linerence maybe? I know this post is bizzare but I can’t tell anyone IRL because I’d be mortified! If anyone has experienced similar please share with me x