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To hate when people use the word 'ignorant' to mean 'rude'?

93 replies

Draineddraineddrained · 26/01/2022 19:33

Ignorant doesn't mean rude. It doesn't mean discourteous. It doesn't mean thoughtless. It is a common, simple word. It has a specific meaning. So whyyy do so many people use it wrong??? It is ACTUALLY ignorant and it drives me crazy!

Sorry. Just saw it in another thread and got in a temper. I'll go and meditate or something.

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stickygotstuck · 26/01/2022 19:34

I hear you, OP!

MacNTosh · 26/01/2022 19:34

I think people believe it means to ignore.

Howdoisawwithnosaw · 26/01/2022 19:36

I think they mean that people are ignorant of how to behave properly?

UpDownRound · 26/01/2022 19:37

Agreed. I'm used to it now but I used to find it really jarring when people used in to mean rude as it just didn't make sense to me. In a similar vein, the use of disrespect as a verb: "he disrespected me", shudder!

Everydaydayisaschoolday · 26/01/2022 19:38

I'm in my sixties and grew up in South London where this use of 'ignorant' is very common. It has pissed me off for the best part of fifty years. I used to argue with my friends about it but now I just let it go - but not without an inner wince.

VladmirsPoutine · 26/01/2022 19:38

I can see how someone might suggest an ignorant MP is being rude. At some point ignorance can/does become rudeness. But yanbu in the big scheme of things. Words and meaning do evolve though.

thistimelastweek · 26/01/2022 19:38

It's shorthand for ignorance of normal rules and manners.

Lack of awareness.

Draineddraineddrained · 26/01/2022 19:39

@Howdoisawwithnosaw

Possibly. But we have other more specific words for that! Like rude, discourteous, ill-bred, insensitive.... I suppose you COULD use ignorant in that sense but it still makes me irrationally cross 😆

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loveisagirlnameddaisy · 26/01/2022 19:40

Dictionary definitions do state 'not polite or showing respect' as an informal, secondary definition.

TiffanyAchingsHatFullofSky · 26/01/2022 19:40

Can someone use it in correct context so I know if I'm using it correctly?!

4pmwinetimebebeh · 26/01/2022 19:40

I hate it too!!! In the area my husband lives people use ignorant as meaning ignored as well ‘I wasn’t being ignorant earlier I just didn’t see your call’ ‘not being ignorant replying to messages I’ve lost my phone’ honestly it makes me want to scream. It means something completely different!!!!!!

loveisagirlnameddaisy · 26/01/2022 19:40

dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/ignorant

TiffanyAchingsHatFullofSky · 26/01/2022 19:40

@thistimelastweek

It's shorthand for ignorance of normal rules and manners.

Lack of awareness.

Oh, I'm good then.
Kendodd · 26/01/2022 19:41

I agree OP.

Draineddraineddrained · 26/01/2022 19:42

@4pmwinetimebebeh 😱😱😱 oh my lord. So much worse!

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LoseLooseLucy · 26/01/2022 19:43

Hmm.. (I do agree with you though OP).

To hate when people use the word 'ignorant' to mean 'rude'?
Kendodd · 26/01/2022 19:43

Also, I hate it being used as an insult. It just means you don't know something. Theres loads of stuff I'm ignorant of.

Lulan · 26/01/2022 19:44

Well......lots of English speaking people seem to think brought means ‘bought’ vice versa.
The same people think affect means ‘effect’.

These are mistakes made by indigenous Brits and not foreigners. Foreigners are taught the English language in a very formal way and their grammatical errors are very different to the above and present differently e.g mixing present and past tenses up. The above examples are borne out of slang, lazy speech and people just not reading good texts anymore, it’s all phone texting and silly abbreviations.

nancy75 · 26/01/2022 19:44

Where I live ( SE London) if I said she’s an ignorant cow/ he’s an ignorant sod people would know exactly what I meant.

QuestionsorComments · 26/01/2022 19:44

Ignorant: lacking knowledge or awareness in general; uneducated or unsophisticated.

It does mean rude, lacking knowledge or awareness (of manners)...

I don't use it like that either,but it's not wrong.

YooCoo · 26/01/2022 19:45

Helpful Meditation Thread

CaptainMyCaptain · 26/01/2022 19:46

@Howdoisawwithnosaw

I think they mean that people are ignorant of how to behave properly?
I think this is what it means. Ignorant of good manners.
Draineddraineddrained · 26/01/2022 19:47

@loveisagirlnameddaisy

Informal seems to me like in this case it means "incorrect usage" though and the example given is weird as the "lout" part covers the impolite/disrespect thing more than the "ignorant" does - you could be a lout who was not ignorant but you can't be a lout who is respectful and polite. Yes I am now arguing with the dictionary 😆

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OperationRinka · 26/01/2022 19:49

I instinctively hate it too, but apparently it's a legitimate alternative meaning so I bite my tongue.

I've occasionally seen people get cross the other way round. "How dare you call me ignorant! - I was perfectly polite when I asked you whether I'd need a passport to travel to Wales!"

madisonbridges · 26/01/2022 19:50

The meaning of words changes over time. So in Shakespeare times 'I'm coming presently' meant now. These days it means soon.
It's accepted in common use that ignorant now means rude. That's how languages evolve.
You've got to get with the times. 😉