A friend of mine asked me if I would go on a weekend break with her to see a theatre show she fancies. I agreed and she said 'great- just let me know what I owe you!'.
I tend to be the more organised one so I booked tickets, checked she was ok with prices and then ran accommodation and flight times by her. She said it was all fine.
We have some free time around the show so I asked what she fancies doing and she said 'oh I'm easy, you decide!'. I've planned a nice day out that I know she'll be happy with (FWIW she never complains about my choices).
I asked her to arrange dinner for one of the nights we're away and when I asked about it this week (a few days before) she said it had slipped her mind and 'don't worry, we'll find something!'. We're pressed for time to eat that night and it's a Saturday night in a busy city.
I forwarded all of the booking emails on to her and she has asked me twice what time our flights are and when do I think she should get to the airport?
I realise I'm coming across as a control freak but I have 3 kids and a DH who also leave everything up to me and is it too much to ask that on just one occasion not everything in the world is my responsibility?