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Scaffolding on neighbours roof

134 replies

SuPerDoPer · 25/01/2022 10:29

I think I already know the answer to this but need clarification.

I've lived here for only 3 months and I'm having solar panels fitted. The scaffolders came yesterday and the area that they need to reach is very narrow and right next to my neighbours garage extension. The neighbours weren't in to ask so I was very clear that the scaffolders shouldn't put anything on the roof next door or encroach on their property. Next thing I know the neighbour has returned home to see 3 blokes on his roof putting scaffolding on his roof and has come round here fuming. I said I'll tell them to take it down and work round it but he seemed more angry about not being warned than what they were actually doing. I apologised profusely and he went off in a grump.

Today I bought a nice box of posh biscuits and went round again to apologise and offer the biscuits. This time his wife answered and kept me on the doorstep for almost 10 minutes telling me how upset and distraught she was and how worried she was about the scaffolding damaging the lead on her roof. I said I'll call them and ask them to come back and remove it but she said no it's done now but wanted to keep telling me how awful the experience was.

I realise I am at fault here but apart from making sure my workmen dont cause any further upset is there anything else I can do? Would you be this upset and distraught if a neighbour put scaffolding on your property? I'm not sure if I would give it a second thought after the initial surprise.

OP posts:
billybbs · 02/03/2023 00:44

I would be furious! Actually, so would you if the situation was reversed, you just don't think so at the moment as it is you having the work done. It is actually trespass, they could crack roof tiles which will lead to problems later on, debris falling in gutters....apart from that it is only common politeness to let a neighbour know there will be scaffolding next to them - it invades peoples privacy for one thing!

Aquamarine1029 · 02/03/2023 00:57

I would be livid if I were your neighbours, and I would have had them remove the scaffolding immediately. Potential roof damage is a very big deal. I think you can kiss any hope of a neighbourly relationship goodbye.

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 02/03/2023 02:15

Yep. I would be livid and expecting the scaffolding to be removed immediately. I would as a minimum, also expect that you pay for a roofer (of my choosing) to check my roof for damage and to pay for any repairs required.
As for your biscuits, posh or not, you would be getting them straight back - probably one by one through your letter box. As for being neighbourly in the future - not a chance.

AFS1 · 02/03/2023 04:08

Zombie thread.

Appleabananasandpears · 02/03/2023 08:00

I put my hands up, misread the date on the last post as 2022 not 2023!

Cantseethewoodforthetree · 02/03/2023 08:16

Hi OP, it wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. Really wouldn’t bother me at all. I’d see the scaffolding, assume it was a neighbour getting some work down, go ting their bell to see how long it would be up for but that’s it. If the installation caused damage to my property I’d expect it to be fixed, but otherwise? Couldn’t care less. Work needs to be done. Scaffolding on my property. Whatever. The people on this thread are just crazy.

Mammadibambini · 02/03/2023 08:53

To be honest, this sounds like part of the story.

you say you’ve lived there 3 months. Have you been wonderful new neighbours or is this just another assault for your poor neighbours who have endured 3 months of you living there already?

I would be annoyed but it definitely sounds like you have been inconsiderate of them for a long time.

I don’t understand why neighbours don’t let neighbours know about works going on.

Roofingme · 21/06/2023 10:42

What ever happened to tolerance & commonsense ?
A very elder neigbour verbally agreed to allow scaffolding feet on her property for health & safety reasons whilst my bungalow roof is being replaced .
A couple of days later I get a note via her friend agreeing to it . As I'd already said I would clean up and in the unlikely event ,make good any damage caused by the scaffolders .

in her note she added a kicker in the goolies . You cannot start this before I come back from holiday .

Arragh ! , roofing contractor booked the scaffolders and ordered them materials upon my affirming phone call .
Scaffold company could now charge full fee if the job is cancelled by her note that arrived a couple of days later .
Roofer company say as it is an essential roof replacement it is already sorted and tested in law .
I don't know what to do or say .
The scaffolders are currently here & erecting the scaffold and it might be she's not back from holiday this morning as no one is answering her door at the minute .

Clymene · 21/06/2023 10:46

Whatever happening to courtesy and being a good neighbour?

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