I'm recently single after a 10 year relationship, I'm early 30s.
I've joined a dating app and honestly - I'm only after a casual relationship/FWB type set up. I don't want a relationship at all for now.
I've found that when "browsing" these apps, I am naturally more attracted to men in their early-mid 20s! I've never really looked at younger guys, but I think given the type of thing I'm looking for, with no strings, expectations and/or baggage that comes with us the older we get, I seem to be swiping more on younger guys.
They also seem to be way more keen and ready to set up dates (seem to like the idea of a woman in their 30s).
Obviously it's not illegal, or even close, but when I've mentioned this to friends they seem to he pretty split in their opinions - those that disagree seem to he disgusted by it as well, with quite extreme reactions.
Now, I know some younger guys can look a lot younger, but any of of the ones I've chatted to look/seem mature for their age. I'm also not misleading or "using" anyone by pretending I'm after anything other than a casual relationship - I'm completely transparent about what I'm looking for, so it's not as if I'm manipulating anyone.
Is this deemed totally inappropriate?
YANBU - nothing wrong with 2 consenting adults doing as they please.
YABU - no you're disgusting.